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#463 - 07/15/04 06:09 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi all. I had a spark of inspiration or maybe you all ready know. You say to stretch the foreskin it needs to be relaxed by a hot bath. Well, why not instead fill a pint glass 2/3 full (depends on your size) of hot water and practice, in a sense, shagging the pint glass. You will find it good fun and good sexercise. It saves a lot of water, so is good for the environment. Happy shagging.
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#464 - 07/17/04 03:40 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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once u get it down sholud u pull it back up do u have to?
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#465 - 07/17/04 08:21 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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What do you mean mate?

Your aim is to losen it, so you can pull it back and forth with ease. So yes, you should pull it back up, if you leave it pulled down your sensitive head will probably press against your underwear which = not good.

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#466 - 07/18/04 01:00 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I have no problem with retracting my foreskin.
When i was young I was scared that if i'd retract it past the head, I wouldn't be able to roll it over again
But I can retract it over the head and down about 1/4 of the shaft

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#467 - 07/22/04 12:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi,
I've been able to clean most of the smegma off now to my amazement. Thanks for the help with using the baby oil it helped. It's still very sensitive and its actually getting less sensitive every day so its going good.
There is still one problem however. There is a bit of smegma left and it is stuck to the side of the head. There used to be ALOT stuck there , but as i've been able to get rid of most of the smegma , there is still a little bit stuck to it that seems impossible to get off. It just won't get off. I've rubbed the shit out of the areas (around the rim of the head) with a wet cloth despite the sensitive pain i go through in order to remove it (with the help of baby oil) it seems to slightly come off but I can't seem to remove the rest. Is there another solution to this ?
This would probably be my last question as I believe I will be fine after removing this last lot of smegma.
Thanks.

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#468 - 07/22/04 01:09 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Nothing really except what you have been doing. Good Job!
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#469 - 07/22/04 01:22 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Are you sure that it is a buildup of smegma? You might want to take a look at some pictures of pearly penile papules, often these are in small rows or clusters on the head of our penis. Take a look around and see if that makes sense, if you type that into a search engine you'll probably find some pics on the net. If it is PPP, there isn't anything you can do about it, just part of the equipment for some of us...nothing you did to get them and nothing you can do about them either. No big deal, just another something we deal with (for some of us) Let us know what you find out.
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#470 - 07/23/04 07:36 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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thanks dude i think thats what ive got
i am now officially the unhappiest man in the world

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#471 - 07/24/04 05:22 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Don't be unhappy, irrelevant. PPP are perfectly normal.
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#472 - 07/24/04 01:10 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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What's the best way to decrease the sensitivity of the head? If I come close to touching it, it hurts. I've read about the stretching, and I've tried it, but are there other suggestions?
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#473 - 07/24/04 01:28 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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The only way to decrease sensitivity is direct contact. I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread if you go back and read through it.
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#474 - 07/26/04 08:04 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hey bud, no pain and no gain. You just gotta keep touching, rubbing and exposing it to direct stimulation. Use some hand lotion or something to help make it a bit easier. In time (few weeks to months) it'll be much less sensitive and so much more pleasureable! I promise!
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#475 - 07/26/04 04:24 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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i can pull it all the way back when flacid that includes the shaft and half way when hard
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#476 - 07/26/04 04:31 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I don't understand...Is that a question or what?
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#477 - 07/26/04 07:35 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I kinda scrolled through most of the topic so i'm sorry if my question is repeated.
I'm 14, and as long as I can remember I've been able to retract my foreskin past the head of my penis and down maybe 1/4-5 of the shaft.
I have a little problem with smegma. I did read some posts here and as far as I've noticed my smegma is not hard. Usually when I'm just sitting around and retract my foreskin, I just use toilet paper to wipe the smegma away.
I wanted to know how to wash myself in the shower so that the smegma will go away for a longer time because it comes back the evening after I shower.
I read some of the tips about baby oil, but since I'm 14 there is no baby oil in my house, and I don't have any money to buy it plus I wouldn't know where to.
My shower-head is kinda powerful so I haven't built up the courage to blast my penis with it, and I'm afraid to use soap on my penis (With the foreskin retracted) because of the possibility of soap getting in my urethra, or any other substance I use.

Any help would be appreciated.

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#478 - 07/26/04 07:42 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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You can't control how much smegma is produced. The only thing you can do is clean regularly. Daily washing is recommended and you don't have to take a shower to wash your penis either. I do recommend using soap when the forskin is retracted. You just don't rub the soap on the urethra. Just make sure you rinse thoroughly.
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#479 - 07/26/04 08:01 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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If I understand you right, you mean I should use the soap on the shaft (The part I can make the foreskin go past) but not on the head.
So my question is, is there any risk in using soap on the exposed shaft? Like the soap going down the shaft skin where I can't retract the foreskin?

Thanks & Thanks in advance

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#480 - 07/26/04 08:11 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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The baby oil was largely for loosening hard smegma, which you don't have; and you could use vegetable oil instead.
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#481 - 07/26/04 08:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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No I meant wash everything. Shaft, foreskin, head... everything. There is no risk. If you rub soap into your urethra then yeah you can geyt a little burning but even that is pretty minor. You need to rinse the forskin and glans thoroughly to remove all soap before you roll the foreskin back up. This is to prevent any irritation from soap residue.
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#482 - 07/27/04 08:06 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Thanks sdp, but I'm the kinda guy that is told something, thinks about it for some time, then asks more questions.

1) Since I use one hand to hold back the foreskin, I just try to wash the penis with one hand?

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2) The only kinda soap I saw (Might be other types around), but the only kind I saw was Moisturizing Soap, so I'm not sure if to use that on my penis since it's for skin.

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#483 - 07/27/04 09:13 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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That plan sounds like it would work fine. You want to be sure and wash under the foreskin and around the head of your penis. That moisturizing soap sounds fine as well, your penis isn't going to be affected by soap unless you use something harsh and scrub alot. Just be careful not to really rub any into the area around the opening (urethra) and things should be fine. You may need to do this several times a day as some of us produce more smegma than others and as you get out of puberty, it'll be much less. I remember being a teenager and having to deal with it, now as an adult I very rarely have any visible smegma....but that doesn't mean it isnt' there...we've all got it to some degree.
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#484 - 07/28/04 12:06 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Just a quick note on the subject,I recently noticed a hole in the middle of the frenulum,it kinda looks like its been worn away.I think thats what its called,altho Ive never heard talk of one on ER tho,is this normal?,as recently Ive been getting what can only be described as half chewed gummi bears remians in my jiz.That alone scared me, but now I think Ive got leprosy or the pox or something!! please any info would help as I dont want to lose a good friend!!
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#485 - 07/28/04 06:47 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Does it work better to use soap than to just water? I took a shower earlier today and just washed my penis with water since I was a bite hesitant to use soap.
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#486 - 07/28/04 07:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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It works better with soap. Why are you so afraid of soap?
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#487 - 07/28/04 08:33 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Just really paranoid that the soap will get into my urethra and/or that I won't wash the soap off well enough before I roll the foreskin back up.
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#488 - 07/28/04 08:43 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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"Chunky" ejaculate seems to be fairly common, 2scared2ask. It doesn't indicate a disease.

I don't know about a hole through your frenulum, but I suppose if it causes you no trouble there's no problem.

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#489 - 07/29/04 05:34 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi all, I'm 19 and have a very tight foreskin. I'd like to start stretching and wonder if anyone has some tips. I've read through the topic as much as I can and can't see anyonr asking the same as I'm going to.

Basically I've tried in the past to stretch with no real results although I've normally given up within a week or two. Basically I need something that I can use to stretch the foreskin. I think I read the use of cotton wool buds being inserted or something? Is there anything similar that I could use?

Is it best to use instruments to stretch the skin or is it adequate to just pull and hold back on the skin? I'm guessing it's the ring of muscle at the end of the penis which is holding it forward so what is the best way of doing it?

Also, anyone who sucessfully stretched their foreskin, how long did you stretch for and how often?

I'd be grateful for any replies.

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#490 - 07/29/04 08:48 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Thanks for the help guys, I washed with soap and it worked great.
Thanks again.

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#491 - 07/30/04 08:06 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hey bud, I'm uncut too so totally understand what you're dealing with here. First, I wouldn't insert anything in there to help with stretching, too much risk of injury for me and probably not necessary. You say that you've tried stretching in the past without success. Mind telling us what you've tried and give some description as to what is really going on. Is the opening too tight such that it won't slip over the head of your penis when erect or is it more about the frenulum and length of your foreskin? Let us know about this and we can probably help. I will say this though, stretching can be done with success but you have to be patient and work with it consistently until things begin to change. There are some tips we can give you, so get back with us on what you need and then we'll go to work!
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#492 - 07/30/04 10:01 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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hey every1, ive posted a message ago a while back and lance helped me big time. I was wondering if sum1 cud answer another Question. Because my foreskin as only recently been able 2 stretch back to a normal position..I have only recently been masterbating the 'normal' way ie. ure hand up n down. The problem is..the head with no foreskin is extremmly senstive and it hurts when rubbed or touched. A few days ago my gf gave me my first bj but it didnt feel gd at all..infact i felt nufin. It seems i onli get pleasure from rubbin that small piece of skin the 'frenulum' n thats it... what do i do?is this normal? thanks
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#493 - 07/30/04 11:47 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hey bud, glad to be of some help. The head of your penis is going to be super sensitive for a while, that's cuz it was covered for so long and stays that way most of the time. You'll need to just work through that "pain" and keep touching, rubbing and directly exposing it to touch. Use some lubrication to help your hand move easily around on it. In time it'll be much less sensitive and will be incredibly pleasureable...just like that area around your frenulum. Just give it some time, you'll see!
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#494 - 07/30/04 12:11 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi lance, thanks for your reply.

In the past I have tried stretching the skin by just pulling it back for about 5 minutes a day. This go to become more of a hassle to do each time.

The opening is very small which causes "ballooning" (although not painful in anyway). I think the problem is with the very tip of the foreskin being too tight...

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#495 - 07/30/04 03:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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OK bud, here goes...you've got some work to do with that opening and when done you'll be glad you spent some time doing this! You need to enlarge the opening of your foreskin, its pretty easy to do, just requires some attention.

I'd suggest that you do this while taking warm/hot soaking baths as it makes the foreskin more easily stretched. Start by pulling the foreskin out away from your body (over the head of your penis) Gently enlarge the opening. You can do this by inserting a finger inside and making circular motions, each one bigger than the last. Or you can tug or pull on each side of the foreskin a bit until you can get a finger inside. Do this repeatedly and daily for as long as it takes to enlarge the opening. THe goal is for that foreskin to slip over the head of your penis and onto the shaft without problems when erect. This may take several weeks or even longer. Just do it and do it consistently. Let me know about your progress and please be patient, you'll be fine. Also, feel free to use the PM system if you've got questions you don't want to be so public here in the thread. Good luck and get to work!

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#496 - 07/30/04 05:31 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi again lance and thanks for your reply.

I will try the finger technique (although I'm sure my little finger is too big! ) and will keep you updated as much as I can.

I'll also try to keep everything posted here in the forum so hopefully people with similar problems will know what to do.

Thanks once again,

myname

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#497 - 08/02/04 04:51 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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When I was about 11, I began to pull back on my foreskin which would not clear my head. I would pull back and it would hurt. When It eventually cleared my head, there was a tight piece of skin which attatched my head (just under the pee hole) to the rest of the fore skin when pulled back. I eventually managed to pull the foreskin enough so that that the skin whick attatched both of them tore (and bled). Of course, it healed soon after.
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#498 - 08/02/04 06:49 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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That was your frenulum that you tore. It's supposed to be there, to pull the foreskin back over the head. Occasionally it is too short and does interfere with retraction.
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#499 - 08/03/04 12:35 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I was wondering what foreskin restoration is liek?
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#500 - 08/04/04 03:19 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hello All,
I have just found this page, wish I would have found it years ago. I am currently 21 and was not aware that the foreskin was SUPPOSED to retract until I was 17 or 18. I looked on the net for a while and found some stretching stuff but not as good as what you have here. When I started I had an opening of maybe a 1/4 inch at most, I can now retract fully flacid so I can at least clean. I found tons of smegma build up, considering I never retracted that far ever not really surprising as I am kind of educated on the subject now. The oil advice worked well, most is gone. I didn't have baby oil or vegatable oil but I did find some canola oil, worked well also. I still have a ways to go, but I'm sure it won't be much longer. I started maybe February of this year and its August so I've been at it for a while, but with great success. It is very sensative, but getting better. I just want to tell the younger kids going through this that you are not alone, I have 5 or more years on some of you and I'm still not sexually active. Once I learned about the retracting thing I wanted to wait till I could. Keep at it, don't hurt yourselves, and Good Luck! You guys that are regulars in this topic I give you alot of credit, knowing that there are people out here like you guys makes me feel better, because in the the US, this is nowhere near common info. Since my bro and my dad are cut I had no guidance whatsoever.

Thank You,
Turd

P.S. I hope to help out a bit when I can, seems to be alot of advice that needs to be given.

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#501 - 08/04/04 03:22 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Some may find this post on another forum helpful, helped me a bit.

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=178155

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#502 - 08/04/04 07:21 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Welcome! We're glad to be of help and certainly appreciate your encouragement for our younger guys. I'm just glad to help as well, never had anyone coach me through any of this so that's why I hang out here so much. Take care of that equipment man, its the only set you'll ever have.
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#503 - 08/05/04 03:00 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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ive ripped the "banjo string" once before and it healed ok, but last night i completely ripped it off. blood everywhere! not sure what to do now. shall i go to the docs or is it unimportant and will just heal. any suggestions?
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#504 - 08/05/04 03:04 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Leave it alone for 2 weeks and it'll heal.
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#505 - 08/05/04 03:20 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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"Banjo String" LOL
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#506 - 08/05/04 03:22 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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lol. jus forgot the proper name. frenulum or summut?
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#507 - 08/05/04 08:31 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Hi, sorry if this has been asked before but my computer and connection are so damn slow that it takes forever to navigate the topic. I'm 17 and I've never been able to fully retract my foreskin because of a string of skin inbetween the tip and the base of the head which is probably the frenulum, I think it's too short or something and after looking at pictures on the net it seems to be attached higher up than normal- inbetween the tip and base whereas most I've seen seem to be attached nearer the base. If I stretch it it is likely to snap, is that a bad thing and what would happen then? Also I've read that you can have an operation to remove it and have it attached lower down. I'm not sure what to do so any advice would be really appreciated.
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#508 - 08/05/04 09:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Well basically you just need to spend time stretching it out. You would want to do it when erect, and then your retract and pull down until it is stretched tight to where it is almost painful. You would want to keep it there as long as you can. Keep on repeating this process every day. Take some breaks to let things settle down.

You can also have a doctor snip it if you can't get it stretched out after an extended period.

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#509 - 08/06/04 05:13 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I've been stretching my foreskin for a long time now and at last I think i'm almost there. I can easily retract the foreskin over the head when erect and it doesn't feel tight.

Just 1 or 2 things; I can easily get the foreskin back over the head when the glans are fully pumped and don't need 2 squeeze them or anything...but if im masturbating with the foreskin retracted the foreskin doesn't roll freely back and forth over the head with each hand movement. Usually i just push the foreskin further down the shaft up 2wards the head and it goes over the top of the foreskin resting just behind the head (make sense?)

Before I wasn't getting any pleasure out of masturbating with the foreskin retracted and it was almost impossible to have an orgasm. However, now im starting to get some pleasure out of it and can usually have an orgasm...but I still get more pleasure while masturbating without retracting the foreskin and can make myself cum ALOT faster.

I think the reason i'm still not getting much pleasure out of masturbating with the foreskin retracted is because the head is still a little sensitive (altho that doesn't need much more work)

I guess what I wanna know is; when guys masturbate does the foreskin usually roll back and 4 over the head easily with each hand movement? or is it like whats happening with me? Or do some of you not retract the foreskin at all while masturbating?

1 more thing; even tho my foreskin is pretty loose now (doesn't even feel tight while I cum with the foreskin retracted) I still have a short frenulum (sp?) so the foreskin rests nicely behind the head but doesn't go much further down the shaft.

What i'm worried about is; if i'm having sexual intercourse, is the foreskin going to be forced further down the shaft and possibly tear the frenulum? or will it just stay nicely behind the head?

Sorry, this kinda turned in2 a long post. Any feed back is much appreciated

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#510 - 08/08/04 06:51 AM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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I dont get stretching it. whats that supposed to do? i never had a problem with it being tight or whatever. maybe its becuase when i was young i used to play with myself alot.
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#511 - 08/08/04 04:42 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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Well I'm having a problem where I can pull the foreskin back the head but it gets pretty tight behind the head and hurts a bit when I get hard. Is this normal? Can I do something about this?

and also... is it that for all uncut men that the foreskin will eventually go back naturally? or would we have to exercise it to make it go back during erections?

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#512 - 08/12/04 08:34 PM Re: Stretching the foreskin
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If anyone could answer me I would be thankful

Anyway my question is...
I've been stretching a lot, I've made some progress, at first it hurt to get the foreskin over the top of the head it was that bad, I'm 18 aswell. Now I can get it over the tip of the head very easily.

Question 1: Sensitivity, when does this generally settle, it hurts to touch it at all.

Question 2: I've been reading about Smegma, I've never cleaned there before, infact I didn't know the stuff existed untill recently, I don't seem to have anything white on my head at all as far as I can see, although I've only got half way down, would it be farther down the head around the glans ? I've also got no smell pulling the foreskin back.

Thanks if anyone can answer this, it's probably been asked about a thousand times but I may as well ask again.

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