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#278306 - 06/18/07 01:10 PM
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My friend and I are meeting up today again to give mutual masturbation a shot... We're looking for any ideas/suggestions/things to do/games to play - just anything to make things interesting, but no touching. Anyone have any ideas?
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#278309 - 06/18/07 01:22 PM
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If you and your friend are meeting to have a mutual masturbation, I think you both are ready for it and aiming for it. So anything would do because you both want it. You two can compete who can stay longer time before ejaculation.
But I wonder why you and your friend plan to have mutual masturbation. You two talked about it or tried it before?
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#278310 - 06/18/07 01:24 PM
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We've done it before but it wasn't very interesting.
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#278311 - 06/18/07 01:26 PM
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I am just curious. What have you done before? If it was not interesting, why are you still going to give a second try?
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#278317 - 06/18/07 01:46 PM
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We bought a fleshlight and used it together. It was just a quick masturbate and cum kind of thing, so we're looking to have a little more fun if possible this time.
btw, we're both straight
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#278343 - 06/18/07 06:27 PM
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Yeah,
I've done that before, and it can get boring...and when it's boring it makes it awkward because you are like "why are we doing this again?"
I'm not sure how to make it more interesting... competing to see who can relieve themselves the fastest could be gratifying.
but I guess I have the same question as you, what would make it more interesting?
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#278424 - 06/18/07 10:03 PM
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I can't help thinking of some words from "Ernie", by Benny Hill:
"Oh, why don't we play cards for her?" he sneeringly replied, "And just to make it interesting, we'll have a shilling on the side".
But I suppose one could try for who can shoot the furthest. Or there's the traditional game of "soggy biscuit".
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#278449 - 06/18/07 10:54 PM
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soggy biscuit... is it a game that the one who loses has not eat the biscuit with other players' semen on it?
Yes, you can compete who can shoot the thickest and largest amount of semen. Maybe it makes thing more interesting
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#278450 - 06/18/07 11:01 PM
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soggy biscuit... is it a game that the one who loses has not eat the biscuit with other players' semen on it? Has to eat the biscuit. A game much talked about, but rarely, I think, ever actually done.
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#278457 - 06/18/07 11:06 PM
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Oh yes, sorry for my typo. Yup, I think people do not really want to eat friends' cum.
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#280090 - 07/02/07 11:17 PM
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Me and a friend always screw our fleshlights together. We see who can shoot the furthest, last the longest, and make the most noise. lol
We also have tried fucking each side of the same fleshlight. Take the end cap off and pump away.
Also, try the shoe method. Put the fleshlight in a shoe and put in on the top of your bed and fuck it. Either take turns or do it at the same time with two seperate fleshlights.
Have fun
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#283108 - 07/24/07 11:22 AM
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Sorry that I took so long to update. Well, he came over, I put on a porn DVD on my TV and we both sat on the couch to see who could stay erect the longest. After that, we tried to see who could last the longest. I want to share one of our fleshlights together, but I'm not sure how safe that would be if we both didn't wear a condom. Would it be safe?
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#283170 - 07/24/07 07:02 PM
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I think there could be a possibility, though not a high probability, of passing on an STD that way.
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#283177 - 07/24/07 07:55 PM
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when I think of that situation I tend to think masturbation with a girl. Iv never jerked off with a buddy, and Id never use the smae sex toy someone else used, and Id have to be unconsious to play soggy biscut, no way in hell is anyone getting some guys goo near me. Im cool with my own goo being on me, someone elses though ? Fuck that noise.
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#283300 - 07/25/07 07:06 PM
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I think there could be a possibility, though not a high probability, of passing on an STD that way.
Well, he's a virgin and I have a clean history. So if we won't be able to pass on a STD, could we put each other in danger with any kinds of infections or anything by sharing it?
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#283302 - 07/25/07 07:30 PM
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#283438 - 07/26/07 07:20 PM
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ok maybe you people mite be different but i think that you cant really call yourself striaght if you jerk off a friend?
Well im just thinking that will kill your stats at a school or whatever if anyone ever found out. id jsut tell ya to be carful
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#283442 - 07/26/07 07:25 PM
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ok maybe you people mite be different but i think that you cant really call yourself striaght if you jerk off a friend? No, it's just YOU who's different. You may be suprised how many guys experiment but are straight.
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#283463 - 07/26/07 09:24 PM
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ok maybe you people mite be different but i think that you cant really call yourself striaght if you jerk off a friend?
So if my gay friend Chris fingers a woman, would that suddenly make him straight?
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#283504 - 07/27/07 02:09 AM
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for the record...their not jerking eachother off, their jerking off together. and im pretty sure almost anyone who is comfortable with their sexuality would get aroused or have some fun jerking off with a buddy. i personally have thought about it, but never had the courage to try it.
everyone is different...some of us just have more fun, or at least think about having more fun then others, depending on what gets you going of course =)
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#283521 - 07/27/07 09:15 AM
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>>>"... i think that you cant really call yourself striaght if you jerk off a friend?"
Bullshit.
Sexual orientation has to do with whether or not there is an emotional attraction. Experimentation at a young age is by no means uncommon. It has far less to do with sexual orientation than it does with sexual exploration.
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#283582 - 07/28/07 02:52 AM
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MK07 you're absolutely right. We're jerking off together, not jerking each other off. It's all part of experimenting, and for the most part, just a different way to get off. Thanks everyone, keep the suggestions coming!
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#283591 - 07/28/07 04:22 AM
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man i cant help throughing in my 2 cents. i think its wierd and cant get hard with a dude there but i got friends who have done the most times cumming in x ammount of times. they started with an hour then 2 then day then 2 days. they tried for a week but called it off due to chaffing (sp?) i posted this late at night so sry if it doesnt make since.
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#283606 - 07/28/07 12:18 PM
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I get what you mean... They tried to see who could cum the most within a given time period. That's a good one, thanks
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#284635 - 08/04/07 02:59 AM
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We now possibly have a girl who will be joining us the next time. Any ideas for that?
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#284636 - 08/04/07 03:03 AM
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hmmm that would be interesting. very interesting. 2 guys together grosses me out no offense but 2 guys and a girl....kind of a turn on. if its not hands off see who can make her orgasm faster. what setting do you do this in? like 2 guys sitting on a couche watching porn on the tv or what?
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#284639 - 08/04/07 03:09 AM
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Yeah it's basically just us sitting on the couch. It will be hands off as you're calling it - basically no touching of others.
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#284640 - 08/04/07 03:13 AM
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i have no ideas for you most of the time im good with these types of things. be careful though to be ok if she looks more at u then a friend and vice versa and be ready to deal with her having a relation ship with one of you. the movie chasing amy (good movie) had pretty good words of advice in general for the who 3 some thing
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#284827 - 08/05/07 11:34 PM
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hm, ok... any more?
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#284829 - 08/05/07 11:40 PM
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Well if its just you and your friend.
Play chess.
In order to move a piece you have to have an orgasm.
With a girl involved.. try chinese checkers.
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#284950 - 08/07/07 03:36 AM
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Well if its just you and your friend.
Play chess.
In order to move a piece you have to have an orgasm.
With a girl involved.. try chinese checkers.
Haha, that's a pretty good one. It's sounds funny, but I think that would be near impossible.
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#284998 - 08/07/07 04:33 PM
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It was mostly a joke. You would have to have quite alot of determination to finish that game of chess.
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#285496 - 08/11/07 04:26 AM
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No offence to you, since you claim to be straight.
Butttt.... Mutual mesterbation can transform into alot of things, and can also not.
From what I gather, you, Plan your meetings for "Mutual Masterbation"
you sexually please yourselves together.
So... To me that sounds like same sex-attracted experimentation.
If the slight urge is there to maybe sexually please eachother, I say why not go for it. Why not see how much fun you and your friend can have together, pleasing eachother.
It wouldnt make you gay, if anything, if your are heterosexual it would redefine your identifying with that label. And it would be good experimentation for figuring out your sexuality.
Gay straight lesbian bisexual transgender... whatever, you dont just wake up one day and know what you are. It comes with personal experience,knowlage and feelings.
Anyway... just my opinion
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#285774 - 08/13/07 10:46 AM
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>>>"Edited by Frog (08/11/07 03:27 AM)"
Who the hell is Frog and how the hell did he edit QKjourneyforward's post?
Just wondering.
>>>"No offence to you, since you claim to be straight. Butttt.... Mutual mesterbation can transform into alot of things, and can also not. From what I gather, you, Plan your meetings for "Mutual Masterbation" you sexually please yourselves together. So... To me that sounds like same sex-attracted experimentation."
By the way, I disagree. Many young boys engage in such activities of sexual exploration. That's generally what it is, just exploration. It is typically void of any kind of intimacy and has more to do with comfort in the familiar and what's available than with sexual preference. It is, more often than not, a stage of development that is quickly left behind when other avenues of sexual release are opened up.
Telling someone that it makes them gay incorrectly and unnecessarily adds to the confusion they generally already feel at that stage of their ongoing sexual maturation.
Edited by OldFolks (08/13/07 10:59 AM)
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#285782 - 08/13/07 11:43 AM
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Is there any point in having a different user name and display name?
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#285889 - 08/14/07 12:39 AM
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He asked to have his name changed from frog. He hasn't posted in 2 years so I OK'd it.
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#293225 - 10/08/07 04:07 AM
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All that we ended up doing was sharing a fleshlight from the opposite ends (which felt amazing by the way). We both enjoy our mutual masturbation sessions because we've both become comfortable enough with each other.
I honestly don't think that an experimentation as this will justify someone as being gay. For me, I'm not turned on by other guys, but I am turned on by the act that we're doing. I like that I am getting off with someone else. It's not like I'm going to give him oral sex or something...
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#355159 - 06/29/10 10:49 PM
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Who ever cums first the other person has to sawllow it
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#355165 - 06/30/10 09:19 AM
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Hey bubbles...
We're glad your posting but we like to keep the older threads asleep. let not try to bring them back to life.
You can always start a new thread on the subject...
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#355271 - 07/10/10 02:06 PM
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... we like to keep the older threads asleep. let not try to bring them back to life.
You can always start a new thread on the subject... I know I shouldn't post this, but when I read the title I just had to.
When I was 13 I used to masturbate pretty regularly with this friend of mine. We'd stand facing each other and we'd stroke each other. I remember how wierd it felt because the sensations coming from my cock didn't match the sensations coming from my hand! When it was feeling really great I'd start jacking harder and faster, but nothing changed on my cock because it wasn't MY cock I was jacking! Same thing with my friend. We could each tell when the other was getting close to cumming by how fast, hard, and furious our OWN cock was getting jacked!
I have't had that experience for a long time, but it was always a lot of fun back then.
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