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#288711 - 09/03/07 01:11 AM accidently touching boobs?
AsianMan
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What if a guy passes by a woman in a store and grazes his arm against her breast by accident? I bet this happens a lot. Do you think to yourself, "Is he trying to feel me up?" or "These always get in the way."?
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#288713 - 09/03/07 01:21 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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I'm not a gal, but I guess I have some right in input.

It depends on how the person touches it? If it's a simple brush, the woman will probably realize it was just an accident. If it was more like an intentional squeeze like OMFG I GOTTA HAVE THIS RIGHT NOW then yeah, I'd say she would suspect something then. If you tripped in front of her and accidentally brushed against her breast, then she'd definitely not suspect anything. Behind is a different story, though behind is kind of unlikely...
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#288715 - 09/03/07 01:47 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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well, this is sorta related, i was in the grocery store today with my parents and gf and i accidentaly brushed soem ladies bum, i dont think any one say and the lady didnt say anythign or anythign. i felt bad, but it was an accident, so i supose it is all a matter of circumstances
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#288738 - 09/03/07 07:55 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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People put too much importance on bodily sex parts. Unless you're groping, it's really just like bumping an arm or something similar.

I think reactions can depend on how the woman looks. If done to a more attractive woman, someone might see it as intentional—including the woman herself—, but when done to a less attractive woman, people may not give it any thought. Is this fair? I think not. Society is too stuck up about attractive people; thinking everyone wants a piece. Most of the population is ugly, and most people don't give a shit. I think it's time people get their heads out of their ass and learn to live life sensibly. You can't complain about everything.




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#288768 - 09/03/07 04:49 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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Lmfao. Gee Helmsman, aren't you lucky?
=P

Hm.
Personally, i don't mind if someone accidentally grazes it, bumps it, touches it...etc.
This actually reminds me of a time at school.
I was walking into the school front doors and there was a guy standing in it/blocking the entrance.
His back was facing me, and he was turned around, talking to his friend.
I was going to turn sideways and slide past him, when he suddenly flung his hand out to emphasis on what he was saying to his friend and he basically cupped his hand over my boob.
When he realized he just touched something, he whipped his head around and the look on his face, i'll never forget.
He turned so red and began stuttering.
'I-i'm sorry. I-i didn't mean to-to uh.'
I laughed and shook my head. I told him it was okay.
Anyway.
So yeah. i don't really care about this kind of stuff.

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#288769 - 09/03/07 04:53 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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I usually think "these always get in the way". I've never came across a situation where I felt the guy was trying to catch a feel.

HOWEVER,

if a guy does bump into me by accident AND then says something stupid, I'll be pissed. That happened to me once.

I was in high school and I was in my 11th grade English class. I got up in front of the class to turn in a paper. As I got up towards the teacher's desk, he was in front of me and I was behind him. He then turns around and bumps me REAL hard and I was like, "ow!".

And then he says, "Wow Daisy, didn't know you like it hard." And I was like "what the fuck!?". I think I called him a name, but I don't remember. In a way it's funny, but in another, he was a jerk for saying that.
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#288772 - 09/03/07 05:32 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: Virtual_Star]
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Wow! You're right. He is a jerk for saying so. The least he could've done was apologize.

This "he" exactly, was he the teacher or just some guy? I didn't really quite catch which from the post.
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#288773 - 09/03/07 06:11 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: katonsuiiton]
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Lol! I'm a dork.

I forgot to mention that it was the teacher himself. It was an accident but he's a jerk for saying something that loud in front of my classmates. But oh well.
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#288778 - 09/03/07 06:46 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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well i don't really think anything of it ill just see it as accidental
but if a girl does it and yeah i would think it was by accident but still be a little freaked out lol

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#288789 - 09/03/07 08:48 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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I'm doubting that anyone would really think of it as something bad, unless they seemed to be intentionally brushing into them, making it insanely obvious. It's going to happen to everyone at sometime, they'll get used to it, and think nothing of it.
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#288853 - 09/04/07 02:31 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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I usually think that "These always get in the way" especially if it's a strange not usually seen guy. But if it's like a friend or someone you see at school or at work then I'm sometimes I'm a little more suspicious. But it all depends on the situation. Usually when they're trying to take something from me or if they're holding me the wrong way then yeah. Or if it's too long of a hug. I've just been warned about those lol.
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#288960 - 09/05/07 02:47 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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It depends on how, and who.
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#289140 - 09/07/07 01:23 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: Virtual_Star]
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 Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
I usually think "these always get in the way". I've never came across a situation where I felt the guy was trying to catch a feel.

HOWEVER,

if a guy does bump into me by accident AND then says something stupid, I'll be pissed. That happened to me once.

I was in high school and I was in my 11th grade English class. I got up in front of the class to turn in a paper. As I got up towards the teacher's desk, he was in front of me and I was behind him. He then turns around and bumps me REAL hard and I was like, "ow!".

And then he says, "Wow Daisy, didn't know you like it hard." And I was like "what the fuck!?". I think I called him a name, but I don't remember. In a way it's funny, but in another, he was a jerk for saying that.
Where does he live so I could crack his skull open lol J/K! No but seriously though I've done it a few times by accident and I always end up feeling like I just did something really really wrong.
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#289432 - 09/09/07 01:39 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: JEDI-ALCHEMIST]
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Why? Done accidentally, it's just that.

I happen to like hugs \:\) for the boobage reason, but that's only with my close close friends.
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#289443 - 09/09/07 05:06 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: AsianMan]
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I assume it's an accident and don't really think anything of it... Unless a guy blushes or acts totally embaressed, then I make fun of him (I'm a bitch, I know, but it's just so funny, plus it makes everything less awkward).
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#297687 - 11/18/07 02:22 AM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: ajmakoko]
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A girl with a sense of humor. \:\)
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#300308 - 12/10/07 02:08 PM Re: accidently touching boobs? [Re: Virtual_Star]
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 Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star
Lol! I'm a dork.

I forgot to mention that it was the teacher himself. It was an accident but he's a jerk for saying something that loud in front of my classmates. But oh well.


Wow! That's actually quite appalling.. for a teacher to say something that suggestive to you? A junior in his class?

I realize its all in fun, but.. man, he could lose his job over things like that.

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