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#290917 - 09/23/07 12:40 AM
Umm... I think my friend
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JapanFan14
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is a drug addict. Like OD. She has smoked before but now she does it alot. And she's really young. Like every day she has at least 3 cigs and sometimes cocaine but I can never tell. She has sex ALOT. She's always horny or whatever but she has sex wayyyyyy too much. She doesn't really drink alcohol... at least I don't think so. I've never seen her drink around me. So I wouldn't know. But I have gone to her house before and I'll go get something to drink and I come back she's having sex with a guy from school on her couch. I'm like... ooookkkk I'll come back later. Like today. I slept over her house so that it'd be easier to get to our community service location. And this week's boyfriend aka bf#17 came to visit since her mother is on a business trip in Georgia. I was washing the dishes and this fool comes in half naked talking about "you gotta nice big booty, ma, I could hit that". I was like "WOOOOAHHH NEGRO! get your ugly behind out the kitchen and put some clothes on!" nasty. Anyway, it reminded me of why I don't like coming over her house. But I think she truly does have a problem. I try to help her as much as I possibly could. But she hates it when I talk to her about it because she thinks I'm "judging" her. But I'm only trying to help her because I don't want her to get sick.
I really do care about her and I have a sick feeling that she's going to OD or something. And I never really got involved before because last time I tried to help her when I realized she looked light-headed, she cursed me out and called me a redneck... because that really makes alot of sense. So I just left her alone. But she's a really cool and nice person... though it may not seem like it to others she's a great friend she just... has her moments. And most people might say leave her you don't need a friend like that. But I know for a fact she's in trouble and I can't leave her when she's possibly killing herself. I don't know what to do. Everyone knows she sleeps around. But nobody knows she takes drugs. She made me swear not to tell anybody. But I have a feeling this is one of those promises I just can't keep.
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#290920 - 09/23/07 12:51 AM
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You have such a good heart, sweetie. Where some people would say leave her be and you move on, you want to stay and help.
This path she's on; doing cocaine and have constant sex is a very dangerous path that can only lead to something really bad. You're right, that promise needs to be broken. You need to tell an adult. She needs to get professional help, or at least go get some serious counseling.
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#290959 - 09/23/07 06:41 AM
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Im guessing shes a teen somewhere around 16-18? Alot of people that start young only become worse and by the time there in there 20's there already spent. She needs professional help. You are an amazing friend for sticking by her, maybe encourage her to get treatment for the drugs? As far as sex shes gonna end up with a disease sooner or later if she does not stop. I would inform an adult maybe even her parent? She may hate you but it might be the right thing to do.
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#291072 - 09/23/07 09:01 PM
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She'll be turning 16 in december. So I warned her that I might tell somebody about her problem and she said "whatever beeyotch" but she was OD high when I said it. I told my sister and my sister said she's going to see what she can do without making a big deal out of it. I know she'll be mad at me for "taking advantage" of her when she was high but I have no choice. Thanks guys.
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#291418 - 09/24/07 07:40 PM
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It’s none of ur business who ur friend is fucking or how many times ….or how many guys. (I know it’s harsh to say but yea...)
If she’s into drugs ( a druggy like u said) then her sex acts could be a form of paying for the drugs. I dk how.. But if u could find a way to help her get off the drug then it could maybe stop the other. All I can say is maybe the best way u can help her is to tell an adult (her parents maybe?) and u stay out of it and let the adult handle it. …. I dk.. it’s all I can think of.
As for her smoking cigarettes. Big deal lots of people smoke cigarettes.
Cocaine a completely different thing….. Maybe her moments are when she’s high on wutever.
I don’t think u should keep this secret either.
I made some one swear ot me and promise not to tell on me but u know wut…… he did. It’s because of Paul telling my mom that I was sneaking around and still huffing that I got busted. .. He also ratted me out to Ryan when I got online once drunk. But If he had never told them and ratted me out I’d still be doing it. I was mad at him.. But I got over it. Now I see why he had to do it.
I warned her that I might tell somebody about her problem and she said "whatever beeyotch" but she was OD high when I said it.
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#291424 - 09/24/07 07:46 PM
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Big deal lots of people smoke cigarettes.
actually, it IS a big deal because it's affecting her and it's affecting me. She's like my own sister whom I have known since birth. She was there the day I was born in the hospital with her parents. I would do anything for her and if something happens to her or she gets sick I don't know what I'd be able to do with myself. So yes, it's a very big deal.
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#291429 - 09/24/07 07:53 PM
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my brother smokes cigarettes, paul smokes cigarettes, the girl that lives across from us smokes cigarettes... number of others smoke.. they know the chances but they still want to smoke. For me i hate the smell of them. i can't stand them. They chose to like their cigarettes. All I ask of them is to not smoke beside me. i don't want to smell that crap.
right now after reading the post.. i think her smoking cigarettes is the lest of her problums (if u want to see it as a problum). get her clean from the drugs and then work on the cigarettes.
I’d be more worried about her catching AIDs or STDs or pregnancy, (even over dosing) than her getting sick from smoking cigarettes.
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#291554 - 09/25/07 02:08 AM
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I despise smokers.
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#291589 - 09/25/07 12:58 PM
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I didn't read the whole thread, just the last few posts, but I agree with CR: Cigarettes is the least thing you should be worried about with this friend. Get her off whatever drugs she's taking and make her realize she's ruining her life and WILL get an STD if she keeps having so much sex.
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#291690 - 09/25/07 08:14 PM
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Have you tried talking to her one-on-one? Do you have a close group of friends that feel the same way you do? Maybe you guys can try some sort of intervention.
I can't tell you not to get involved because I know I would be trying to knock some sense into my friend's head if she was whoring around and taking drugs.
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#291882 - 09/26/07 05:50 PM
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ok, her and her bf broke up today and I think she's been cutting again so I'm definately getting her help
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#291901 - 09/26/07 06:15 PM
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OMG my jess did that she almost died would have if no1 had found her, GET HER HELP ASAP.
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#291906 - 09/26/07 06:29 PM
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You're a weird person.
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#291907 - 09/26/07 06:33 PM
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No just a complete waste of human life
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#291908 - 09/26/07 06:34 PM
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That works too
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#291922 - 09/26/07 08:14 PM
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wow that was rude
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#291984 - 09/26/07 11:53 PM
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Are you surprised?
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#292066 - 09/27/07 02:53 PM
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Should she be? but i don't mind anyhow think of me as everyones personnal verbal punch bag call me what u will.
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#292071 - 09/27/07 03:34 PM
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No, she shouldn't be surprised...and I'm sure she isn't.
Anyway, you are NOT someone's personal verbal punching bag! Why are you so down on your self? Is there a thread I missed somewhere?
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#292073 - 09/27/07 03:41 PM
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yes i am, i am because i have too be, and yes you have.
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#292104 - 09/27/07 05:23 PM
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You don't have to be STAR, it's how you choose to be. You can change that, but only if you want to.
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#292113 - 09/27/07 05:52 PM
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Yes i do, and i can't change a thing i am what i am. A disgrace too the human race. And too the OP your doing the right thing keep up the good work with your friend she will thank you when the time comes.
Edited by {STAR} (09/27/07 05:53 PM)
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#292114 - 09/27/07 06:10 PM
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Unfortunately, I used to think the exact same way you did, so I know how you feel, believe me.
And because I've been where you are now, I know that nothing anyone says will change your mind. I just hope you change your mind sooner rather than later.
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