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#292465 - 10/01/07 12:55 AM
Prego?
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ARSin
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Warning: This is going to be long!
So less than 3 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. He didnt have protection (and I could tell he doesnt use it often) so I told him to use the pull-out method. He pulled out on time (as far as I could tell) and had asked if I had finished and I said I hadn't so he proceded to enter me again and finish the job. I remember somewhat wiping him off but i'm not sure if he had done it himself before he re-entered, and now looking back at it i'm completely paranoid! Since then, we had had sex three times over the last two days (2 times in one night), using the pull out method for each times.
The thing is, though, I have extremely irregular periods that often come every other month with spotting in between, but it usually doesnt come arounnd the same days. (In other words, it comes at anytime and I have no way of knowing when) Would this fact lessen my chances of possibly becoming pregnant?
Please, I need some advice! I might go to a clinic in a few hours and get EC but i'm worried its too late now. I feel so stupid - i'm usually so much more responsible than this!
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#292466 - 10/01/07 01:00 AM
Re: Prego?
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(and I could tell he doesnt use it often)
And why didn't you DEMAND he wear one?
Would this fact lessen my chances of possibly becoming pregnant?
No one can give your probablilities. But for sure, you got a chance on being pregnant.
Go get the EC, if you wish, but also pick up some condoms and make an appointment for getting birth control. Trust me, it will do you some good.
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#292494 - 10/01/07 12:03 PM
Re: Prego?
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I would go get the EC pill. I believe you have up to 3 days after sex.
Just so you know, many women get pregnant using the pull-out method. It is not reliable. In the future, I suggest you demand him to wear a condom....if not to protect from pregnancy, but also STD's. You don't know where he has been and what he may have. It also will benefit you to get on some form of birth control yourself.
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#292524 - 10/01/07 04:02 PM
Re: Prego?
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If he pulled out, ejaculated, wiped and reentered then you are at a high risk of getting pregnant. Semen remains within the urethra after ejaculation. If he ejaculated and then urinated, then the semen was probably completely washed out.
I have my first child by having sex multiple times a night and using the pull out method. Good luck
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#292591 - 10/01/07 11:25 PM
Re: Prego?
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ARSin
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Thanks a lot for the advice everyone! I got EC, though it was a little beyond the 72 hours, and im hoping for the best. Next time ill be much smarter!
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