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#306616 - 02/02/08 02:37 PM
Did you lose your virginity the way you wanted to?
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Did u lose it to someone who you liked/loved, or did you lose it just to a person because you were just horny/drunk/etc.? I've talked to some guy friends who have lost their virginity to a slut and they say they wished they waited and lost it to someone they had feelings for, but then there are others who tell me that they felt a little bad losing it to a slut, but that at the end it doesnt matter who you lose it to because your going to have sex with someone else anyways. Whats your opinion?
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#306627 - 02/02/08 05:26 PM
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I was happy to lose it to the person I lost it to. She was a good girl and although things went sour fast I really did care for her.
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#307004 - 02/06/08 06:14 PM
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nope.
I regret it.
i wished i still had it.
but what ever
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#307012 - 02/06/08 11:03 PM
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but that at the end it doesnt matter who you lose it to because your going to have sex with someone else anyways.
I thought the same shit but it's not always true. I ended up marring the person I lost my virginity to. Whether that was to be the case at the time or not, didn't matter in the least. She was an avalible piece of ass that I liked and would actually allow to get so emotional intement or physically close to me. ...But, I have a shitload of issues... that probably makes my experiences less applicable.
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#307021 - 02/07/08 12:14 AM
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Nope, it doesn't make it less applicable. You did good!
I laugh at what I have been through since, but I actually married the first guy I really kissed!! THAT is weird...though, now, I look at it like it was dating with paperwork.
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#307089 - 02/07/08 05:40 PM
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I have a shitload of issues... that probably makes my experiences less applicable.
I wish I could say good things about losing it….but I can’t. what I can say tho is the best sex I have ever had is with the girl I’m with now. One of my exs lost her virginity with me and my girl now too. I wish both had done it differently. My Ex’s friends pushed her into it and I was too messed up to be fucking with a girl. It ripped us apart instead of making us closer.
i do think it matters who you lose it to. some people don’t even get a choice to lose their virginity. Some have had theirs took from them. maybe it was done not violently or maybe it was... Some people are pressured into losing theirs when they should have waited till they were ready.
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#307197 - 02/08/08 02:34 AM
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I think the only way to go about it is to think what you thought when you decided to do it. If you really thought it was the right idea at the time (even if you regret it here after) you really shouldn't feel bad about it. You did what you thought was right at the time.
My bes friend, she gave herself to one of her exs. She has regretted it ever since, and I understand why. However, at the time it felt right, so you shouldn't regret doing it. Maybe just not saving it?
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#307202 - 02/08/08 05:21 AM
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I lost to the guy i ended up marrying , i cant say i can imagine losing it with anyone else or want to for that matter!!
I cant say the sex was great but just knowing it was with him made it very magical for both of us. I wouldnt change anything about it , no regrets 
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#307215 - 02/08/08 08:50 AM
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My first time was with my girlfriend of two (hopefully many more) years. I've seen that most people say their first time was a disappointment, but mine was extremely satisfying for the both of us. Of course, it always got better. Practice makes perfect 
Im very glad I lost it to her, though. She's the only one I've felt I would actually want to have that experience with. It was all the more special that she was a virgin, too.
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#307221 - 02/08/08 09:47 AM
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I lost to the guy i ended up marrying , i cant say i can imagine losing it with anyone else or want to for that matter!!
I cant say the sex was great but just knowing it was with him made it very magical for both of us. I wouldnt change anything about it, no regrets
You never told him this have you?
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#307233 - 02/08/08 11:15 AM
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Well i don't think either of us were expecting fireworks however i wasn't exactly going to spell it out.
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#307240 - 02/08/08 11:56 AM
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nope.. perfect Practice makes perfect 
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#307252 - 02/08/08 02:52 PM
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Lol
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#307301 - 02/09/08 02:57 AM
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Any kind of practice is good !!! , and .... practice is always a lot of fun where i come from. hehehe
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#307355 - 02/09/08 05:57 PM
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Drunk and not so horny, but she obviously was. I was too drunk to finish, my first time, so we went at it for about an hour. Ugly story, huh? She asked for it. Literally.
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#307947 - 02/13/08 04:46 PM
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it wasn't as I had expected but it had to happen eventually. It could have happend that my g/f and I lost it together but we broke up for a month and someone else snuck in and stole my cherry.
I was going to a house party with a buddy. He said that there was this hottie, Alicia, who was also going. Apperently everyone was after this chick. I met her, she was deffinately georgeous. We ended up looking for music in a bedroom in the basement... started kissing and hey-ho-there-ya-go
we never did it again but we did hang out a fair bit. About a month later, I got back together with my other g/f and she lost her's with me. In retrospect, it would have been nice if we did together but ya can't change the past.
now I'm a born again virgin. I haven't had sex in 7 days
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#309616 - 02/27/08 12:32 AM
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Your hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days!
I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either.
I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference.
Edited by Elena (02/27/08 12:42 AM)
Edit Reason: typos. :(
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#309618 - 02/27/08 12:49 AM
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Your hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days! I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either. I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference. Look at you with 12 posts knows more about men than men know about themselves! :p
Hahaha, No, I'm afraid you're very wrong about that.
I don't know very much about them at all, that's why I'm here.
That, and the fact that my school lacks in sexual education.. a lot.
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#309627 - 02/27/08 02:15 AM
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dammit
I'm still looking for my hymen
jeeze, where is that thing?!
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#309664 - 02/27/08 11:51 AM
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haha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother
[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao]
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#309679 - 02/27/08 01:12 PM
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haha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother
[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao
 wow.
How did he wrap her?
Did she pop out of the cake,
or did he just use a lotta wrapping paper? :P
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#310243 - 03/05/08 04:16 AM
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I lost it to a girlI really liked, and knew very well. The reason I chose her, though, wasn't because I cared a lot about her. I was familiar with her and figured I could learn some stuff about sex from her without worrying about embarrassing myself. She and I actually had a few first times, because my pathetic self kept going limp. When we finally got everything to work, it was over too quick and I didn't feel like I'd done too well (I didn't come, just lasted for about 10 minutes before going limp again.)
All in all I'd say the best way to go, for a guy at least, would be to find a girl who isn't a virgin. You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her. For girls, I would definitely say go for a guy your own age or younger. Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually.
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#310255 - 03/05/08 01:49 PM
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You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her.
In other words, lead her to think you like her and then use her for sex? That's nice.
That is, of course, you mean a mutual one night stand type of thing with no strings attached.
Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually.
What does a guy being older have anything to do with popping the cherry? And I didn't quite understand the rest. Older guys don't want to tell girls what they want? Did I read that right?
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#310625 - 03/10/08 05:30 AM
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Never said you should be misleading. I was very forward with the girl I lost mine to. Told her I wasn't in love with her but I wanted to sleep with her. If she'd have expected anything more I wouldn't have gone through with it. I just think a guy's first time would be better if it were casual. So a one night stand would be an option, yes.
I said that older men don't usually want what they tell you they want. In other words they say they want one thing and really want another. But, like I said, that's usually.
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#311198 - 03/16/08 11:37 PM
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I regret nothing. I dont consider myself a virgin and havent for a few years now, but im a gay man, so what would the rest of you consider losing your virginity?
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#312025 - 03/24/08 12:12 AM
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My opinion: Keep is as long as you can and give it to that someone special.
You only have it once to give.
Couldn't agree with you more on that one. It was so romantic (I know that sounds cheesy but wait!). It was on Valentines day of 2006, I was 17 he was 18. We were dating for a year and he took me out for dinner at this beautiful hotel. Afterwards he said that he had booked a room for us to just relax in. We never could just lay down in my bed cause that was prohibited by my parents and his mother didn't really alow us alone. I was expecting it to happen. I opened the door and there were candles lit and rose petals in the shape of a heart on white sheets. It was so beautiful and definately memerable.
Sorry for boring you guys with my long story.
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No boredom at all, ChristyRes, and welcome to A2A.
The trouble with guys' doing that is it sets a difficult standard for the rest of us.
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#312108 - 03/24/08 03:13 PM
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Lol thanx.
You know as long as you try that's all that counts.
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#312140 - 03/24/08 10:00 PM
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you gotta keep up Ineligible lol. most women like that kinda shit. the thing is once you have her spoild to that kinda stuff you got to keep on making the next better.
for shannon's 19th bd i did the rose everything for her... spent lots of green on those roses and her rose cake and hotel room. for christmas i did the rose a day till christmas day thing.. green well spent but shit she is spoiled! she hinted to me that her birthday is getting close.... (next month... next friday exatly) I don't know wtf i'm going to do but it's her 20th so it's got to beat her 19th... u know.
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#312146 - 03/24/08 10:18 PM
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I hope my wife doesn't hear about this! Next she'll start wanting me to buy her her own birthday presents, instead of having to buy them herself.
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#312185 - 03/25/08 05:43 AM
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that lose it with someone you love crap is kind of annoying. and saving for marriage just seems retarded to me. we're humans. we were put on this earth to mate. our bodies want us to. It might be a religion thing and i gues i have to respect that but then i have no respect for religion. "mind altering drugs are a sin" fuck catholics seriously. im bipolar and i have adhd so i guess i sin every fucking day (k that was a bit off-topic) anyways, yea i just dont see the point in waiting for marriage. i say lose it with someone you know while your sober. thats all. that way america doesnt call you a slut (if you're a girl) or praise you like you're the messiah (if you're a guy). sorry if i offended anyone here im just extra angry so it adds to my viciousness.
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Losing your virginity or waiting until marriage may seem silly to you but to others, they hold that close to their hearts. I don't really believe a lot of people will wait until marriage, but that doesn't mean the few that do are "retarded". I think it's something admirable.
Losing it to someone random doesn't work for everyone. You can ask my boyfriend on that one.
that way america doesnt call you a slut (if you're a girl) or praise you like you're the messiah (if you're a guy).
That makes no sense. Sadly, for women who enjoy sex, they are called sluts no matter what but guys are off the hook.
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#312215 - 03/25/08 11:32 AM
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Its hard to always top the last time.
The one thing I have not been able to top is a hour long massage and pedicure in a spa. Its her favorite thing and I think she would be disappointed to NOT get it at this point.
Its always part of the gift, I avoid jewelry, she doesnt wear any anyways aside form the ring. you can never go wrong with flowers, and a night out is always a good idea, especially when your old and have kids and they dont come around very often.
I took her to the symphony once, she was excited to go but was bored as fuck 10 minutes into it. Ill avoid that in the future.
Mine is always happy to get new camping shit or fishing shit, but I have a rare girl, I dont think you can get away with buying too many girls new sleeping bags or a fishing pole or nice reel or fishing vest.
I hope this is not one of my posts that julie bothers to read as this year im trying to get reservations for the homestead... its a private resort outside of heber city in the uintas, stay in a cabin, ride horses all that shit after a gift certificate to the spa.
its a bastard to always top the last one, good luck to ya in keeping it up.
I figure average life expectancy and what not plus we both smoke, i only gotta do it 30 more times or so, you found yours at a younger age, you got a good 50 plus to get through so ya may want to start planning ahead
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well she loves the massage, while iM good, she gets that a few times daily on weekends and always at night on weekdays, but iM no where near as good as the guy I pay to rub my wife! He went to school and happens to be gay. He really is good too, Iv had a few from him myself.Just to address what will come from some people on this board who love to give me some shit...There was no happy endings involved! it makes her feel good, as to the rest, I try to make it some time we can spend alone, something to let her know I care and just because its been a few years I dont take her for granted. Besides we are gonna end up with the camping and fishing stuff anyways, may as well get it for a gift, I at least know she will like it.
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I get the power saws not her! Actually any tools, can you ever have enough tools?
she gets gifts more than once a year, her bday, christmas, sometimes just because I happen to see something I thought she would like, flowers here and there just because.
Topping the gifts is more just how I am, than what she needs or wants. Once you give something great you have to keep it up! its just who I am not something that was forced on me.
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#342677 - 05/11/09 10:05 PM
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i was raped...be careful out there
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I was 15 and it was my very first real gf. Or so I thought. Actually, she wanted to do it a lot more than I did. She kept telling me how much she wanted to do it with me, and finally I said okay. I was pretty nervous, scared I'd accidentally make her pregnant, and extremely embarrassed trying to go buy some condoms. We were both virgins. The first time was awkward, but okay. We did it again a couple days later and it was a lot better.
Then she told her friends about it and it got back to her parents, and they confronted her and she pretty much told them that I had raped her! That I forced her to have sex with me! It was extremely ugly for a while. Obviously, that ended our relationship.
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#342835 - 05/12/09 11:48 PM
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At the time I knew I was falling in love with my ex. We had only been together for a few weeks but it just seemed to work. It was a great night and I loved every bit about it. He told me months later when he was SOBER (so it was actually how he felt) that at the time he thought I was too easy and he was thought I was a slut after we had sex. I was shattered. He even thought I was too comfortable and because I didnt bleed he suspected that I had had sex before. He was an idiot!!!! I felt humiliated because it was my first time and I absolutely trusted him. I hate the fact now that it was with him. But I am glad I have the experience because I know I would be more comfortable now in a relationship and would be more careful as to who I have sex with. I think I am definately better off and I know I am not just going to marry the next guy I go out with.
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#343502 - 05/27/09 03:46 PM
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No, I wish I hadn't lost it with the person I did.
The relationship lasted 3 months, she was too openly sexual right from the start, and I stayed with her and lost it after I found out she cheated. Terrible move.
I was also under pressure from everyone at school thinking I was some sort of sexual wierdo. There were rumours being spread that I had some sort of freakish sexual fantasies, and since I'm the quiet reclusive type, everyone believed it, and I felt I had to prove I had a normal sex life.
Wasted it? Yes.
Regret it? Yes.
Nothing I can do about it now though, except try and forget it.
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#343649 - 05/31/09 06:38 PM
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I regret my first time too. But what's done, is done.
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#343958 - 06/07/09 04:34 PM
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gave mine to a long time gf, she gave me hers also.
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#344792 - 06/25/09 01:46 PM
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I lost mine relatively recently- within the past 3 months (aged 19). I love the girl to death, and we're still going steady.
No regret.
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#345306 - 07/07/09 02:34 PM
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I did it with the first girl I knew was willing just to finally experience it. I was 21 and had panic attacks thinking I'd be a virgin forever.
I stopped liking her soon after she got all clingy and stalky but I dont have any regrets because i just wanted to not feel all left out and weird when i was around other people who were talking about sex
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#345331 - 07/08/09 12:11 PM
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how's that make me a jerk? it's not like i used for sex, i just realized after a few weeks she was kinda crazy in the head and bailed.
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#345410 - 07/10/09 05:08 PM
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I've been doing GREAT!!!! Thanks for asking.
How about you? It's good to hear that you've been doing well! I've been doing great, too! Keep in touch.
My bad bro I didn't mean to be a prick and ignore you. I been good though kinda forgot about this forum for a while until I needed it again.
How you been?
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#345435 - 07/11/09 02:06 AM
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I couldve waited till I was like 25 until I had a serious boyfriend who loved me. But Im 18 and never had a boyfriend and I got tired of waiting. I liked this guy for about five months. We talked about it often. We were both drunk when it happened, and he doesnt remember that it happened. So theres a lot to regret. But I dont, because I cant take it back so theres no point in wasting energy in that. Id rather focus on the good parts like, it was good sex. Im glad it wasnt awkward, silent sex. Im glad I wasnt nervous, or body conscious, or it was only missionary. It was really open, natural comfortable, and kinky sex haha. So it is what it is.
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#345483 - 07/12/09 11:48 PM
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I didn't lose it the way I thought I would. I was in a long term / loving realationship and all that. But the first time we did IT, it was wierd and awkward. I really wasn't crazy about doing it again lol But it got better from there.
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#347038 - 08/16/09 12:34 AM
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i lost it to someone i love. but unfortunatly it wasw in his gramas basement and we used a baggy  roflmao
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