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#312692 - 03/29/08 10:34 PM
I want him back.
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floridacansuckit
Registered: 07/19/07
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Me and my boyfriend just broke up almost two weeks ago. We've been dating since october and I really miss the crap out of him. We were still talking up until thursday we got into a fight (all my fault). We havent said a word to each other since.
I want to get back together with him. Is it better to ignore him or stay in contact?
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#312694 - 03/29/08 10:39 PM
Re: I want him back.
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Virtual_Star
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Well, did you let him know that you want to get back together? Do you know how he feels about that idea?
ADDED: I should also add what was the reason you broke up in the first place? I mean, breaking up and trying to get back together within two weeks is too much. You have to give time for the both of you to chill down and then talk about your relationship. Right now, emotions are too high.
Edited by Virtual_Star (03/29/08 10:45 PM)
Edit Reason: ADDED
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#312699 - 03/29/08 11:37 PM
Re: I want him back.
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JEDI-ALCHEMIST
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How severe was the fight? If it was severe enough for you guys to stop talking then maybe you should consider not talking to him for a few days, weeks even. You should also keep in mind the reason why you broke up in the first place because sometimes relationships get to a point where they become so irreperable that it loses the point and meaning of why you guys got together in the first place. I think you should wait till it all blows over and contact him by e-mail phone instant message or text and ask if you could just talk.
Edited by JEDI-ALCHEMIST (03/29/08 11:40 PM)
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#312711 - 03/30/08 07:37 AM
Re: I want him back.
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Kattikins
Registered: 03/30/08
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Ooh, I've been there.
Well, sort of. The guy dumped me and I basically refused to talk to him, and of course he had to be a jerkface about it ...
Anyway, I think you should do what I did- Just leave him be and eventually he'll start talking to you again.
Like Virtual_Star asked, what was the basis of the fight? You said it was your fault- did you insult him, accuse him of something, were you having a bad day and took it out on him ... ?
I have a feeling that if he picked up and left just like that, after 4.5 months of dating, he's really not worth it. There's got to be a logical reason as to what's going on here ...
All I know is ... don't bug him. You've left him plenty of time to try and talk it out, and you just being you is probably enough bait that would make any other guy come back. But if he's not going to take, find someone who will.
I read too much into things, but from the small amount you wrote, I have a feeling that it's not you, it's him.
Good luck,
Kat
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