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#313142 - 04/03/08 04:31 AM
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So my girlfriend has now talked to her mom about getting protection, and she is going to get the shot in the next few weeks. I have already got condoms and we plan on using condoms everytime.....almost.
We have already talked and both want to try shower sex and i was wondering if a condom will work in the shower or can i not use them in the shower. I guess i could always pull out if i dont use one since shes on the pill. So anyway im just wondering if condoms can be used in the shower or anywhere else involving water?
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#313176 - 04/03/08 05:37 PM
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Yes, certainly they can, though if you use ones with lubrication it might get washed off.
Lubrication can be a problem with sex in water.
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#313417 - 04/06/08 12:45 PM
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Next time you're in the shower, try to see if you can test out a condom in the water, to make sure it doesn't slip off or feel too uncomfortable. So that way, you'll get the idea how to properly use a condom in the shower and it won't be a complete surprise to you.
I don't know why I thought of that. I'd figured if guys practice using condoms during masturbation, why not in the shower? 
I'm one of those guys who practiced in the shower the first time I ever put a condom on. The one thing I noticed is that the water would quickly wash all the lubrication off, and then it actually made it pretty difficult to slide my condom-covered penis in and out of my hand. (So I had to re-lube it and then keep the water from hitting it and washing it off.)
It made me curious how people would have sex in a shower, or especially while in a swimming pool. I have no actual experience with either, but I'd guess you'd want to keep the shower water from directly hitting your penis while you're trying to have sex in the shower.
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#313427 - 04/06/08 04:34 PM
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Well this isn't exactly my area of expertise, however in my experience, girls naturally do a good job of keeping things easy to flow, so to say.
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#313554 - 04/08/08 03:08 AM
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lol, for me it was in my bathtub, but i wasnt IN the water :-P
anyways, from my experiences, of having sex IN a pool, as well as in the shower, condoms are extremely uncomfortable.
not only does it cause discomfort to the girl after 3-4 minutes from pure rubber rubbing against her vaginal walls, but it also discomforts you because not only do you have a layer blocking you from feeling her warm walls, but now that layer is getting stuck and is becoming harder to maneuver within her.
as for the pool, same thing applies, and sometimes, the pressure of the water will cause her to not completely feel you inside of her. which isnt fun either
only time the shower would possibly work, is if
A.) you had lube handy, and ready, and were steady, whilst playin in her pussy.... (all that rhymed :-P)
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B.) she is renowned for squirting, and will be able to completely keep herself lubricated during the whole time... but theres still a chance it'll be uncomfortable for the both of you a little more into the act...
well phew... thats all the advice i really have on this subject, good luck :-D
oh...
also one more thing that i didnt consider, female condoms might actually work... since there inside her, it wont be getting hit by the water...
but i have no idea how those work so dont ask me.....
and im like SOOO hyper....
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#313573 - 04/08/08 12:22 PM
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nly time the shower would possibly work, is if
A.) you had lube handy, and ready, and were steady, whilst playin in her pussy.... (all that rhymed :-P)
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B.) she is renowned for squirting, and will be able to completely keep herself lubricated during the whole time... but theres still a chance it'll be uncomfortable for the both of you a little more into the act...
Horse shit!
Iv banged many girls in the shower, and never a problem, in the shower the water is running, its not like in a pool or tub. She isnt under water, its running down the outside of her. There is no problem at all with shower sex.
Iv worn rubbers to hump them in the shower and gone bareback, either way its fine. DOnt get the rubber wet before ya stuff it in her, that is the only concern.
Once again spouting off shit ya must know nothing about and passing it on as fact.
I fucked em in lakes skinny dipping too, once ya get it inside of them, let them grind on it, the old in out in out doesnt do anything to help comfort or orgasm since it washes away the lube that she naturally provides, grinding into it though works fine.
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#313575 - 04/08/08 12:41 PM
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but it also discomforts you because not only do you have a layer blocking you from feeling her warm walls,
Bullshit. That's no excuse to not wear protection (if she's not on birth control or a new partner).
as for the pool, same thing applies, and sometimes, the pressure of the water will cause her to not completely feel you inside of her. which isnt fun either
Don't actually have sex IN the water of the pool! It's dangerous to a female. What happens is you force water into her uterus and it may cause an infection in her ovaries.
I agree with Chance on the last part.
Edited by Virtual_Star (04/08/08 02:02 PM)
Edit Reason: Ha ha, grammar
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#313592 - 04/08/08 03:29 PM
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people already said that it would work if the condom wasnt hitting the water, and thats a given... you wouldnt technically be having sex in water, if the only water there was the water running down her back, avoiding her vagina...
Edited by GrownPastMyYears (04/08/08 03:32 PM)
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#313593 - 04/08/08 03:33 PM
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So my girlfriend has now talked to her mom about getting protection, and she is going to get the shot in the next few weeks.
this is exactly what i fuckin meant about u and the others just jumping at me with EVERY post i fuckin make!
read bro! and anyways, i was giving him ADVICE!!! i wasnt even saying that he should hit her raw, i juss said that it gets uncomfortable, if he wants to still wear it, letem wear it, wear 2 condoms, and a cock ring for all i care, im juss tellin him what i know and thats it!
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#313600 - 04/08/08 03:51 PM
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The guy is a weirdo.
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#313601 - 04/08/08 03:53 PM
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He is in the army after all so I guesse that makes sense.
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#313634 - 04/08/08 11:52 PM
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the two condoms thing was meant to be taken sarcastically... using two condoms actually INCREASES the chance of pregnancy. because they can break easier...
i didnt say it wasnt a good idea either. i juss said that it doesnt feel good, which IS my personal opinion...
im not that gullible, i mean, i didnt crack under peer pressure... :-P i started smoking, and drinking by myself :-D
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#313635 - 04/08/08 11:55 PM
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Personal experience does not always equal fact.
What you're basically doing is this:
OP: I want to have sex in the shower with a condom on.
You: That's cool, you should wear a condom, but in my experience, it's better without it.
So, unless you have something more useful to add, then hush.
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#313638 - 04/09/08 12:31 AM
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i did have other things more useful to add, and i added them...
i told him the different feelings of sex inna pool, and in the shower, and that basically, if he uses it in the shower, that he has to be careful with water...
but i juss said PERSONALLY i dont like it, my gf isnt on BC, but his is gna be... and he did say he wanted to try...
so u know what virtual!!!
*sticks out toungue* na, na, na, na na na!
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#313646 - 04/09/08 01:00 AM
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but i juss said PERSONALLY i dont like it, my gf isnt on BC, but his is gna be... and he did say he wanted to try...
so u know what virtual!!!
*sticks out toungue* na, na, na, na na na!
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#313649 - 04/09/08 01:17 AM
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that section of my post was directed to virtual, as a personal msg...
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#313650 - 04/09/08 01:19 AM
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that section of my post was directed to virtual, as a personal msg...
He swings and it's a miss. 
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#313651 - 04/09/08 01:21 AM
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well perhaps you should use a PM to give any personal message you feel is absolutely necessary, then you could avoid being publicly corrected.
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#313653 - 04/09/08 01:34 AM
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how was he correcting me? so now i get the priviledge of correcting u...
he was stating that it was useles... not pointing out any faults. get it straight.
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#313655 - 04/09/08 01:38 AM
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And one last thing, I jump on poor advice or bullshit. You should know me better by now.
also i think that members, should be able to be friendly with one another... even if the only thing friendly that we do say, is juss a comment or two
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#313656 - 04/09/08 01:41 AM
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If you can't see that by pointing out which parts of your post were useless he was correcting you, then you've missed the point entirely.
And if you did correct me justly, it wouldn't offend me. That's part of learning.
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#313659 - 04/09/08 01:43 AM
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also i think that members, should be able to be friendly with one another... even if the only thing friendly that we do say, is juss a comment or two
I would also think that people would learn, after being corrected numerous times. But, like a fool, you continue to do the same thing, over and over, and somehow expect something different to happen each time.
A perfect time to dig into my geekiness. You remind me of an episode of the Simpsons in which Lisa was conducting an experiment on the intelligence of a hamster and Bart. She hot wired a cupcake, giving Bart a shock when he touched it. He kept on grabbing it, knowing he would get shocked. But like a fool, he kept doing it, expecting himself to get his cupcake on the next try.
And you cry about people not understanding your posts...
Edited by Virtual_Star (04/09/08 01:48 AM)
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#313763 - 04/09/08 02:54 PM
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only reason i havent responded yet, is cause i have NO idea what u mean/are talking about...
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#313764 - 04/09/08 02:58 PM
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Here's another example of a fool:
Me, I am a fool because I keep trying to correct you in hopes that you'll learn from your silly mistakes. So that way, you won't be made to look like a jack ass, trying to defend yourself when you've been proven wrong. I try to hold on to some small bit of hope that maybe you'll change on the next post you make.
However, like a fool, I'm expecting something different to happen even though I'm seeing and doing the same thing over and over.
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#313779 - 04/09/08 05:46 PM
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ahhh, i guess we share something in common... cause i keep expecting u to THOROUGHLY read through my post before making urs. and u never do, then we have a 8-12 post type debate, trying to explain what each one of us is saying...
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#313889 - 04/10/08 02:39 PM
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you should learn too... u've misread about 5 or 6 of my posts, and then you skim through it, pick a couple sentences, dont read the parts leading up to it, or following it, and then take it that the whole section was juss that, and that was my whole point...
therefore causing me to HAVE to fight back...
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#313890 - 04/10/08 03:02 PM
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u've misread about 5 or 6 of my posts, and then you skim through it, pick a couple sentences, dont read the parts leading up to it, or following it, and then take it that the whole section was juss that, and that was my whole point...
Again, I don't "skim" through anyone's post. In fact, I have to re-read yours two or three times because you're English sucks more than mine. You're making an ass out of you and me.
therefore causing me to HAVE to fight back...
I said you have a nasty habit of fighting back when you're wrong. You love trying to prove that an apple is also an orange. This happens because you either don't know what you're talking about (getting the wrong ideas from the wrong people), you make shit up, or because you don't know how to word your posts, and thus, miscommunicate.
So, instead of trying to fight back, just back off and read what people are tying to explain to you. It's really all that simple and if you still don't get what I'm trying to get at, then there's no hope for you.
I think I've tired out my privilage to post here. I'm suprised this thing hasn't been locked yet. Anyway, if you don't understand what you're doing and what I'm trying to tell you, then don't be suprised if you get a reply from me in other thread. Afterall, we are just a couple of fools.
R.I.P. this thread.
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but being a young stupid HS kid when I was banging girls in various lakes we went skinny dipping in I never thought about infections or the microbes that lived int eh lake water getting into her, IO only though of hey hey another one to add to the list and another goo shot being launched form my wang cannon!
