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#313153 - 04/03/08 10:32 AM
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liverpool367
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Hey guys, i really need help,
Me and my gf broke up like 2 weeks ago, it took her 2 days to hook up with someone & now she like him, he likes her etc...
The thing is, i still love her so much, she doesnt want to see me at the moment cause she said it will be to awkward. I talk to her on the phone, she told me shes trying to erase our whole history from her memory, that made me cut my legs, which mind ive only done once or twice before, like a week ago i engraved her name in to my leg. But anyway, I dont know what to do, iv been crying every night, i want her back, i cant deal with this pain...what can i do? (oh and i no going out and doing stuff to forget it helps abit, but no much for me :(....
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#313204 - 04/03/08 11:06 PM
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get help.
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#313210 - 04/04/08 01:03 AM
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Do you have any close friends you can be with? It's like a death, it's devastating, and being with friends can help.
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#313214 - 04/04/08 02:00 AM
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how old are you? And how long were you with her?
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#313229 - 04/04/08 08:59 AM
Re: I need help...
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liverpool367
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Nah, i got like no one to talk to about it.
Btw im 16 & its was just over 6 months or so.
And i no your saying yeah, move on etc... but i kinda cant..
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#313255 - 04/04/08 12:40 PM
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Can you find some other interest that you can poor yourself into. Don't just sit around thinking about her. If you need to talk it out... well talk it out here. Right now I think you should find something else that will consume your time. A project of some sort like working out to lift x amount, designing something, whatever just something to work toward.
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#313258 - 04/04/08 12:50 PM
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talk it out here like OldFolks said, and follow the advice your given, find somethign to do, and think about this.
The fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone new.
its a numbers game, the more girls ya ask out the more yes's ya get.
the more rejections as well, but if ya ask out 100 youll get ten yes answers, be confident, and not mopey and fucking depressed. put yourself out there, and dont give up, the depressed part is true even when you dump her and then see her with someone new. get over it and realize your 16, ya got many years of this hsit left, and its not like you were married and had years invested in here, prolly never would of been, your young and still looking for what ya want, still trying to figure out what the hell that is.
its part of life and is never as bad as it seems, it takes time to put the shit behind ya.
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#313478 - 04/07/08 09:20 AM
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that sucks man
but that's life. you just gotta bite the bullet, accept it and move on. i know that seems impossible but in time you will see its very possible.
try to get back into some old routines and do some things you never got a chance to do while you two were together. go hang out with your mates and just chill out and have fun with them.
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