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#316406 - 05/10/08 01:38 AM
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25 Gunz
Registered: 04/14/07
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Loc: London, Canada
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Ugh. I hate This so much i;m moving again for the 6th time. We can never fucken settle down in one house i hate my family so much... everyone but my mom. My dad used to hit me when i was younger so we never got along and my parents hate eachother and they live in sperate rooms too. We built this house and we all though were finally going to settle in for the last time and were fucking selling again but they make to make a profit before the market goes cold.
My mom and i want to live on our own again im only 17 and we live in the country right now between 2 citys. Selkirk and winnipeg. i go to school in selkirk and we lived out here all our lives but 2 years when me and my mom moved out to try it out and they got back together but its not working out again. And they want to move to winnipeg and i cannot stand that place i don't want to switch schools with only one year lefted  ME and my mom were talking about living again together by ourselfs but she said we have to wait before we sell this and get the cash in our hand which well probably take up the whole summer.
and i told her im not switching schools and ugh i don't want to wake up at 4AM to go to school for 9am. They said they'd probably get me a car but whos going to pay for gas. its soo much now and i only work 30 hours a week. and im freaking out im going to lose my friends and im going to have the worse summer ever. fuck it
Edited by 25 Gunz (05/10/08 01:38 AM)
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#316410 - 05/10/08 06:09 AM
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I wish I could think of some advice. It's not a happy situation in so many ways.
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#316495 - 05/12/08 06:05 PM
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Dude, Winnipeg is great. Depending where you are, that is. North End sucks, Elmwood sucks, but where I am is good. School wise. Crime/Gang wise its all pretty equal.
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#316605 - 05/13/08 10:18 AM
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I know you may hate to change schools but since you have, or are gonna have, access to a car will your mom let you go visit your friends on the weekend or maybe, occasionally on the weeknight, for homecoming games or whatever special shit like that there is? Is there somebody in Selkirk your mom trusts enough that you could stay with on the weekend? If your going to be in weekend driving distance, and your mom is agreeable to it, you really won't need to cut ties with your friends and try to make new ones.
I know it sounds like shit, what your going to have to do, and it is but it also isn't that bad. I don't see any insurmountable reason that you couldn't maintain your life in Selkirk. What did you say it was a four hour drive.
I did that shit, my friends, my life and everything where two hours away from where I went to school, all through high school. In some ways it was kinda nice. I didn't have to deal with all the shit (good and bad) friends can bring, during the week. School was just a place I went to get me to some place else. It (school) had nothing to do with my social life and I think that was good, in the long run anyway. It's nice to get a break from people, or so I think. It worked for me but the ranch and granny were where my friends were so having a place to stay, over the weekend, wasn't a problem.
Don't let despair make you lose sight of your objective, that is finding a way to maintain your social connections in your last year of high school. Sit down and think it through till you find some kind of solution that will fit the requirements of the situation.
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#316657 - 05/14/08 12:35 AM
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StephieJ
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Do you have any close family members you can stay with, perhaps??
Thats the first thought that came to my mind.. you need to get away from that and get some stability.
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