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#317134 - 05/16/08 11:43 PM
omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusing
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deek
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i really dont understand it if a guy likes you why cant you at least try and see if it works out it makes no sense or if you di like a guy why wont you just ask us out i know for me i stopped asking girls out cause i got sick of denials you all have heard the line NO or heres one FUCK OFF OF ME and stuff like that please help i really need help cause i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me we went to the movies and the night before she txted me you know we are just friends right and i said yes even though i liked her i was so mad at myself for doin it then we went to the movies and she kinda gave me mixed signals please help me asap
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#317136 - 05/17/08 01:45 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusing
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Stop being lazy and use punctuation! Seriously.
Did you tell her off the bat that you were interested in her? It seems from the text message she sent you that she didn't get the signal that you like her. But at least she made it clear now that it's not going go anywhere. Don't be pissed that she's not interested in you.
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#317137 - 05/17/08 01:47 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusi
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theres a doo wop song "book of love"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xDwq8NM9G4
understand that song.. and u will understand women...
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#317138 - 05/17/08 01:50 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusi
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You're joking, right? Please, tell me you're joking....
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#317139 - 05/17/08 01:53 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusi
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Okay, aside from your appalling lack of punctuation, which Virtual Star has already addressed - I know that when I was single and younger, I always thought that the guy only wanted to be friends. See, that's the default position for a girl, she won't assume are interested in her until you SAY/do something. And I don't suggest doing things because you need more experience, but the kind of things I was thinking of the hand on the thigh, etc. I hope that made sense.
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#317145 - 05/17/08 03:37 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusi
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virtual, im really not having a good day/last couple days...
stop taking everything up ur ass and start enjoying whats in front of u...
YOUR NOT GOING TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT WOMEN FROM UNDERSTANDING THAT SONG...
but u will gain some insight...
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#317147 - 05/17/08 03:40 AM
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Lol! I was indeed being sarcastic but I wasn't trying to start anything. If anything, you should calm down and "start enjoying what's in front of you".
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#317148 - 05/17/08 04:09 AM
Re: omg why do girls have to be so fucking confusi
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idk i always take what u say as a serious remark, unless u put like a smiley or something afterwards...
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#317172 - 05/18/08 12:09 AM
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The chick I was gunning for, it seemed like she was interested in me from all the various stuff she did. But turns out she is completely not interested in me.
Go figure......I thought for sure I had a shot but....noooooo.
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#317212 - 05/18/08 03:22 AM
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Couple of questions:
1. How old are you?
2. What's not to understand? Once you accept that women are emotional creatures, that makes things MUCH easier.
To answer your questions as best I can:
if a guy likes you why cant you at least try and see if it works out
What for? So you can come to the original conclusion, and now you've just wasted time, energy, and most importantly, time?
you di like a guy why wont you just ask us out
Lol the age old question. Many females (particularly younger ones) are just as shy as males are. Since you have the penis, make the first move. As you get older and find more mature females, you'll find that the ones who are comfortable around guys, actually GO for what they want. Also, girls DO drop hints or signs that they like you. You can't...one sec...lemme stop.
i know for me i stopped asking girls out cause i got sick of denials
WRONG, WRONG WRONG WRONG, AND WRONG. You DO realize you FAIL 100% of the time you don't try, right? Every "No" is one step closer to a "yes". They teach you that when selling things, btw.
i got sick of denials you all have heard the line NO or heres one FUCK OFF OF ME and stuff like that please help i really need help
Please tell me they're not saying, "get the fuck off me", like you're on them...?? clarify.
However, one needs to understand that attraction begins with confidence. Ask any girl...ANY girl. What's one of the top qualities they look for in a guy? "CONFIDENCE!". Even if you're not chiseled from stone with perfect features, if you come off as CONFIDENT -- mind you, not cocky, you will be more attractive. Confidence in a lot of cases actually supersedes looks. Some of the most attractive people are still single, and unattractive because of their lack of confidence.
please help i really need help cause i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me we went to the movies and the night before she txted me you know we are just friends right and i said yes even though i liked her i was so mad at myself for doin it then we went to the movies and she kinda gave me mixed signals please help me asap
As I was going to say earlier. You can't expect to just have someone be attracted to you for no reason. Attraction, just like any emotional connection, needs to be spawned. It's mutable and needs to take shape. Physical attraction is odd. It's one of those things that you can start off not having...but end up creating. Take friends who have known each other for a lifetime, for instance. They may start off just friends and coast through life with the "brother/sister" mentality. Then one day...for no apparent reason, they're having A.D.I.D.A.S backwards man. Sex All Day In Dad's Apartment. But attraction needs to be planted before anything further (intimate) can happen.
My advice to you is this:
- Stop caring so much if she likes you or not. Time will tell.
- Stop chasing her, if you are. Don't call her every hour, don't text her all day...bottom line, make yourself scarce.
- when you two are together, be funny, witty, CONFIDENT, and social with other people! Let her see the side of you that's fun! From my experience, and as far as I know, girls love to have fun!
- Don't go to a movie. That's a big no-no. Why? Because you two can't talk, converse, fraternize, etc. She can't see all the great qualities about you, while you two are engaged in a movie with eyes forward.
That's all I have for now since it's 3 in the AM.
Take what I say with a grain of salt (btw, never understood that...but I know what it implies...someone, explain por favor/bitte?)
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#317213 - 05/18/08 08:37 AM
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blackmanoncampus, do you intend on writing a book? because that's the first chapter... can I be your agent please? lol
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