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#317828 - 05/25/08 01:30 PM how to ask this girl out?
TND



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There's this girl I like, and we've been going on dates every weekend for a while, and I'd like to ask her out, but I don't really know "how", per say. I don't want to like, make an ass or idiot of myself by saying something stupid or something that could be taken the wrong way.

I guess what I'm asking is what should I say to her to like, be a couple or date exclusivly or whatever the hell it's called.

Sorry if this sounds really stupid, but I'm not good with this kind of stuff. I have a huge fear of rejection, and I don't want to ruin our friendship with this, but still...
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#317838 - 05/25/08 08:18 PM Re: how to ask this girl out? [Re: TND]
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Welcome to A2A, TND!

It seems to me that you already are going out, and all that is needed is for both sides to acknowledge the fact. So you could say "Shall we officially consider ourselves a couple?", or something like that.
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#317849 - 05/25/08 10:52 PM Re: how to ask this girl out? [Re: TND]
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lol claim something of her. Next time you're out together, give her a compliment and say something like, "...yep...and it's all mine." Don't put too much emphasis on the "all" part, or else she may think you're extremely clingy. Instead say it in a joking manner. \:\)

*after a kiss hello*
you: "supple lips"
her: *smile*/"why thank you :)"
you: "yep, and they're all mine"
*kiss again*

Associate a positive feeling with it.
She already knows what you guys are, trust me. Females are "bred" from childhood to know where each guy in a relationship with them is on their, "ladder of hierarchy". You're clearly more than a friend; it just needs a name. You give it a name by saying something like the above. *btw, feel free to change up what I said/did you won't hurt my feelings*.
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