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#328575 - 08/21/08 09:57 PM
Would I notice them?
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I'm wondering if just to look at my boyfriends penis if i can tell if he has any STDs...He has had sex twice and i'm still a virgin...i had given him a handjob and a bj...and i haven't noticed anything off...
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#328576 - 08/21/08 10:13 PM
Re: Would I notice them?
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I'm wondering if just to look at my boyfriends penis if i can tell if he has any STDs...He has had sex twice and i'm still a virgin...i had given him a handjob and a bj...and i haven't noticed anything off...
Some STD's have noticeable marks (Genital warts). Some STD's have fluid secretions (Clamydia). Some STD's have sickness (later stages of HIV, AIDS). Some STD's show NO signs (Early stages of HIV and at times genital warts).
Point is that while a visual inspection can show if there is something, a clean appearance is NO indication of whether or not one has an STD.
If you're worried, ask him to get tested. It's the only way to know for sure, and if he cares about you any iota he should have no issue going for a test. If he won't, I'd consider that a red flag about the quality of man you're seeing.
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#328612 - 08/22/08 12:47 PM
Re: Would I notice them?
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If he's only had sex twice, do you know if the people he slept with are clean? and the people they slept with? Etc etc?
I mean, if you don't know, then he shoudl get checked, but if the girls he's been with are clean, then so should he be.
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#328622 - 08/22/08 04:45 PM
Re: Would I notice them?
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I agree, but the only problem I find there is do you trust them? Do you fully trust the boy you're with to tell you the truth when he says he's clean. Do you trust the girls that he's been with to have told him the truth when they said they were clean? Would they even know they're clean themselves?
One of the biggest problems with the rampant spread of STD's is the belief that the partner their with would never have had an STD, or that the partners that they were with before would have never had an STD.
If you intend to have sex with another person after already being with one you owe it to yourself and your new partner to get an STD test. Be responsible and don't always expect the partner you're with now or the partners you had before to have never lied to you or to even know themselves.
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#328812 - 08/24/08 09:48 PM
Re: Would I notice them?
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I trust him with my life...but i only know one of the girls he's slept with...and the one i do know i don't trust since she cheated on him...but the thing is that when a woman has an std you usually wouldn't notice it and i'm afraid that would've happened to him...i told him about getting tested and he said he would when the time comes when we're ready to have sex...i'm just wondering if i'll be ok giving him head..i most certainly don't want anything like that in my mouth!
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