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#335367 - 12/14/08 02:45 PM
Wife feels inadequate... A little help?
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My wife is (to me) the most beautiful woman in the world. She is petite, red haired, and wonderful. She also has 34A breasts (comes with the petiteness). I tell her she is more than enough for me, but is there anything specific I can do or say to make her feel better?
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#335369 - 12/14/08 03:17 PM
Re: Wife feels inadequate... A little help?
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It'll probably always be one of those things that always bothers her a little bit, but everybody is different, and there is a different beauty to everything we see everyday. As beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and in this case; you are the beholder... then you just have to tell the truth, as long as your words are true, she'll know how loved she is, and it'll help her to feel a little better about it at least 
As with everything in this life, everyone is different, some men like big boobs, others don't, some men like big bums, others don't, some men like their women short, some tall, there is something/someone out there that is everyone's ideal, and I'm sure (as you got married) that you are each others ideal, so it's just a matter of being reassuring when you need to be for each other
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#335371 - 12/14/08 03:34 PM
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you can reminder often that she is as she was when you fell in love with her and that's just perfect.
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#335434 - 12/16/08 08:34 PM
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I think the main theme thats run through all of these replies is communication (I'll keep it short). Aslong as what you say you mean thats the most important thing for you and for her, you love her and she just needs reasuring, the best way is hold her hand, look her in the eye and tell her exactly how you feel.
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#335494 - 12/17/08 09:09 PM
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I know how your wife feels... sorta. And it sucks. But females especially will always find something about themselves that they don't like and that they wish was different. I'm petite in general but my chest is too big in my opinion. It gets in the way of soccer which I love more than life itself. For me it's more inadequacy than it is insecurity though rest assured there is definitely some insecurity. Just help her to accept herself as she is and love herself by showing her how much you love her.
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#335704 - 12/19/08 05:46 AM
Re: Wife feels inadequate... A little help?
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Thanks for all the advice guys. It's what I thought all along, so I'll just keep reminding her that I've always loved her exactly as she is. And I don't want her to change.
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