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#343638 - 05/30/09 09:22 PM No feeling with condom
StrapingYoungLad
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I dont enjor sex with a condom. I've tried a few different makes and sizes and with none of them do I get any sexual stimulation atall. Sometimes I can keep going by working to stay aroused, which isnt particuarly fun in itself; sometimes I just stop pbeing able to contiue, or I will have to change condom many tiems as my dicks up and down constantly from lack of persistant pleasure. I can maintain and enjoy sex when not using a condom. I friend told me her boyfriend has the same issue and that he never uses a condom. She also said he was circumsized, which I am also and I wonder if this is a factor.

Is this atall a common problem? Any thoughts or suggestions?

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#343642 - 05/31/09 12:24 AM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StrapingYoungLad]
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U should get a special kind of condom.. ultra sensative or something. Or try a new brand.
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#343643 - 05/31/09 03:08 AM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StrapingYoungLad]
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Hi Straping! As Steph said - have you tried one of the ultrathin condoms?
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#343645 - 05/31/09 04:13 AM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StrapingYoungLad]
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I also found Ultra Thin to be the best kind.
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#343648 - 05/31/09 03:09 PM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: MMAfighter90]
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Right, I've just ordered two varieties of condom that are advertised as being lighter and more sensitive. I will try them out and see what happens. Thanks for the advice.
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#343654 - 06/01/09 12:15 AM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StrapingYoungLad]
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Is she on the pill??
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#343866 - 06/05/09 07:29 AM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StephieJ]
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Annoyingly not, soon though. She said the other night that we can wait to have sex when shes on the pill though cos she can tell how frustrated I'm getting, clearly its less good for her if during sex my face is just one of annoyance and aggravation even if I can keep going. I'll probably wait to try these condoms out when shes on the pill, that way if they still dont work for me then I can just take it off and go on without them without it having to end anything.

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#349524 - 10/14/09 05:10 PM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: StrapingYoungLad]
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I HATE condoms. I've tried various types, thicknesses etc. Ultra-thin make me cum in 2 seconds, everything else I barely feel anything. I just thought sex wasn't that good until my ex finally started taking BC. The difference is like night and day. In a perfect world, all women would just take BC and condoms wouldn't exist.
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#349843 - 10/23/09 12:22 PM Re: No feeling with condom [Re: gooooooogle]
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Well four months later from when I made that original post me and my girlfriend have been having alot of sex, all without condom. I just cant seem to manage it! I tried the ultra thin and it is an improvement; I can maybe last about 2 minutes with them before I just go flacid. Its all very frustrating. Me and my girlfriend are having a bad time in our relationship and I need to think about the future. What if sometime in the future I wish to sleep with a woman who isnt on the pill? What the hell do I do then?!

I agree goooo, the difference is phenonamal. Penetrative sex has thus far been a total waste of time for me when it involves condoms. As it is right now I'd rather just not have sex than have sex with a condom, its horrible! But that of course limits my options. I really wish I knew the answer to this. Actualy gooo I'm impressed you can cum in a condom; I have never seen my semen in one.

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