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#345491 - 07/13/09 03:19 AM
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Ok well my problem is that I have two southern baptist parents and live in a town of 7000 including the prison so small and a high school of 500 maybe and I'm a closet gay i don't like it but I don't have a choice I work with kids from 0-6 and because of the stereotype if people knew I wouldn't be able to work with them and I DONT do anything inapropriate with them and I'm gay but I'm a relationship gay not a sex one
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#345492 - 07/13/09 03:28 AM
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It might be best to wait until you are able to move out.
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#345496 - 07/13/09 05:42 AM
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I'm sorry but I couldn't help myself...
How the hell do you work with kids at age 0? That makes no sense, lol!
Then again, your English makes no sense either. I still see you choose to ignore punctuation.
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#345498 - 07/13/09 07:25 AM
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I'm with Ineligible on this one. I would wait. You said you were still in high school so it would probably be better to wait until you have graduated and have a stable source of income, if you think there is a possibility of being disowned by your family.
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#345501 - 07/13/09 10:44 AM
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NtroducingMyself
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Like other have said I would wait untily ou at least graduate. As a gay person myself I understand the frustrations of being in school and feeling like you have to hide; I've been there. But know there is no rush in coming out; there is no great prize at the end of this rainbow for coming out while in high school. 
Also I'm a bit confused by a statement you made:
I'm gay but I'm a relationship gay not a sex one
WHat did you mean by that statement?? lol
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#345505 - 07/13/09 01:00 PM
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What I mention by that statement was that some people are gay just for the sex and then there are people like me who are in it for the relationship and the sex (like me) or at least that is my understanding anyways and I'm sorry for my grammer I'd use puntuation but I'm using an iPod touch and it's kinda hard to do the puntuation stuff with it
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#345506 - 07/13/09 01:02 PM
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And I'm just going to say it I AM GAY so there the first time I've ever really have said it
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#345507 - 07/13/09 01:55 PM
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Ahh okay, I was a bit confused by the statement.
There are people out there, especially when much younger, who will have gay sex but not particularly gay themselves. They are more into the experimental phases of life.
One thing to remember as long as you are being true to yourself it doesn't matter much on what everyone else knows or thinks about you. Just be cautious is all everyone here is asking.
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#345514 - 07/13/09 03:24 PM
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Ok thanks so much
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#345521 - 07/13/09 09:13 PM
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Well done, deek.
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#345524 - 07/13/09 10:47 PM
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Thank you and sorry about my dad he's very protective lol
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#345620 - 07/15/09 10:51 PM
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Just to add more weight, I agree with what everyone else has said on the subject.
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