Did you really expect people to be on your side when what you did was completely wrong? If you felt the need to fight the guy for what he did fine whatever I think its childish but do what you gotta do. But to have a friend help you beat his ass, is wrong. Not to mention you jumoed the guy, which is just chicken shit. Be a man and fight on even ground.

Furthermore, he was confronted and given the option to apologize but instead he got very close to my friend

like he was about to kiss him even

He also taunted him saying "i can dry hump the shit out of this kid all I want."

I would have happily killed him with no remorse if it was a deserted area.

Everything you say is fallacious

What am I doing to bring unwanted attention?

Everything you say is fallacious

If thats truly how you feel, that you can take a human life because the guy was a drunken idiot, than you need to get some psychological help. And I am serious about that, not joking or being silly. Get help before you actually kill someone and find out how many "connections" you truly don't have.

A. Under law, what you experienced was not rape or sexual assault. Look up the laws.

To convict someone of murder, motive is not required, only malice aforethought. You and your buddy planned to go beat up this man because you were angry. Had you killed him, you could technically be charged with murder. Many states do not change sentencing based on intoxication.

Men touch and rub women they do not know it bars all of the time. It isn't sexual assault.

If you were to hit on a gay woman, would you think it just if she beat your ass?

If you find yourself so unappealing, then why are people hitting on you?

You need a lesson in current social structure. It would be a major mistake to assume everyone is straight. Gay men and women are on the rise.

here are no straight or gay bars. And one is allowed to hit on whomever they please (unless they are underage if course). It's every humans' right.

There are no gay signals unless you make them that way. Most of my gay friends are quite normal. They get hit on by girls and are not defined by their sexuality. Not all lesbians are butches. Not all gay men paint their toenails and talk with a lisp. That's a sterotype that you need to push out of your head.

If you are messing with this forum, leave. There are people here truly trying to find answers.

Yes, but women dance seductively effectively inviting a guy to grind up on them.

Well since real lesbians often are 300 lbs, wear a flannel button down, boots, and have crew cuts I probably wouldn't want to hit on her.

I mean they give hand jobs to strange truckers at rest stops after all.

they cannot follow the same tactics that straight people do because homosexuality is still not accepted everywhere and they should keep their activities covert and to themselves.

I am not bashing homosexuality

Yup.. at the local truck stops I'm called Right-hand Randy!!

Secondly, we have every right to court people how we see fit.. just as any other American citizen. As long as we are not hurting anyone, why should you even care?

Wow really? The majority of your posts are dedicated to bashing homosexuals. So if thats not your intentions you have a very sad way of showing it.

BUT get it through your fucking heads, unless a guy is 100%, unquestionably gay it is not okay for a homosexual to try and hit on him, period!

If a guy wants to meet guys WHY DOESN'T HE FUCKING GO TO A PLACE WHERE AT LEAST 75% OF THE PEOPLE THERE ARE CERTIFIABLY GAY?

No, no, no. You're telling me if you just see a guy at a grocery store it's okay for you to go and hit on him regardless of what his sexuality is? Do you do this shit?

Is it that difficult to go to a fucking GAY ESTABLISHMENT and do these activities? Come on, every city with at least 20,000 people has probably one gay bar. Can't you fucking go there?

So basically because it is ok for a homosexual to go up to any guy and try and have sex, by your logic it's okay for a pedophile to go up to a playground looking for little kids because "they have every right to court people how they see fit."

But your fucking attitude is that any guy is fair game for you, even in straight environments. I should never ever, ever fucking be in a situation where a guy hits on me unless I put myself in it.

You're the god damn troll here, not me.

Any idea how many girls i hit on that turned out to be gay? what gave me the right to ask them out not knowing if they were carpet munchers or sword swallowers?
Honestly, the only one taking a risk is the guy doing the asking.
He risks rejection and being beaten or killed over asking someone on a date.
Iv had many gay men ask me out, I said no, the ones that persisted pissed me off, One in particular got the ass beating of a life time.
I think you must be scared your a queer and thats whats got you so pissy. Do ya want to taste some cock but your ashamed?
thats what all of your unfounded anti gay shit points to.
Me thinks you doth protest to much!

Yes I do, because a person does not wear their sexuality on their sleeve so his sexuality is clueless. Also, as I stated above as long as a person does it respectfully and aware of the consequences I see nothing wrong with it. And no, I personally wouldn't do that only because I'm actually pretty shy in person and I admit I like people to make advances towards me lol.

That is not my "Fucking Attitude", my "Fucking Attitude" is that people in general have the right to talk and get to know people. If it comes to the point where the other party is not interested, then they need to back off… regardless of genders. Again, as long as it’s all done respectfully there is no damage.

And again in your situation, I strongly feel the guy who dry humped you was not hitting on you... he was just a drunken idiot, and I bet he was also straight.

I see nothing wrong with someone taking the chance and hitting on someone as long as they are aware of the possible consequences. But I think in most cases, a straight guy is not going to attack/hurt a gay person for simply being hit on as long as it’s done in a respectful manor. Now if done in a manor that’s say, smacking the guy on the butt well than he takes his own risk lol, but that’s also inappropriate regardless of genders.

A guy can't go up and do this shit to a girl, why does a homosexual think it's ok to do to me?

Why are gay men allowed to molest guys but if a straight man does this to a woman it's rape?

Three times is no coincidence. I need to know what I am doing to put out an "open invitation."

And yes I was raped. They don't have to penetrate you to rape you. He raped my sense of well being and dignity. I certainly felt raped afterward and I might need to go to a support group for rape victims.

I think I went through the same feelings at least. I felt helpless and violated afterward like he had taken something from me without my permission.

Ok yeah, that's a gross exaggeration but it's disgusting, degrading, and ruins my night.

I really, really hope you get raped violently so you can see how it feels to be helpless and violated. Then I hope everyone tells you it's your fault and the guy who raped you didn't do anything wrong.

Why did I ever think anyone here would be on my side anyways?

Can we go back to my original question. What am I doing to bring unwanted attention? How can I avoid this from happening? Why does it happen to me disproportionate times? Why does it never happen to my friends? Should I just give up on going to the bars?

Maybe you just don't understand that when your friends and everyone else see you get dry-humped you have to react in this way or else you look like a bitch.

Well since real lesbians often are 300 lbs, wear a flannel button down, boots, and have crew cuts I probably wouldn't want to hit on her.

It's guys who hit on me not girls and I figure gay men have no standards or something.

Gays should be careful when they try and do the courtship routine, they cannot follow the same tactics that straight people do because homosexuality is still not accepted everywhere and they should keep their activities covert and to themselves

the homosexuals who make out and grope in public places forcing mothers to cover their child's eyes.

Well since real lesbians often are 300 lbs, wear a flannel button down, boots, and have crew cuts I probably wouldn't want to hit on her.

XD , wow, i have only met hot lesbians buddy.

um...i returned bck to this forum recently. I read this whole thread....i have a few opinions of my own to share here.





Well....i m a gurl and i have been humped etc etc by guys many many times even wen i was as young as 8-9 yrs old in pubic places....one guy pinched my nipples wen i was travelling in a bus i was 7 yrs old wat the fuck would a 7-8 yr old do to attract attention?

i m 26 now but i still have to face this kinda stuff though i mind my own business and i dont wear short skirts and flaunt my assests with "come close and fuck me" written over my forehead!! I dont even go to bars fyi! I m sexually "not-active".

This kinda "molesting" as u put it...is done by some it doesnt matter if they are homo or hetero. Seriously I have worse expierences than u do but i wont call it "rape" or " molesting" those r very strong words!





u should not use the word "rape" this way. Its too strong a word. You have no idea how it feels.



This proves u r an asshole!!
I never would wish sumthing like tht even to my worst enemy!



We are here to help people with "real" problems. We dont take "sides".



You are not doing anything to attract attention. Things like this happen even when u are minding your own business. Just turn around say no and carry on with your life. Its a waste of time if u keep thinking about things like this. If it makes u feel better then yes stop going to bars....get beer and enjoy it at home, watch a movie on tv or sumthing.

You are reading too much into other person's actions.



So wrong.



OMG roflmao have u ever seen lesbians? they r hot chicks!!



Thts so wrong! I have friends who are gay and they are 10000 no wait....a million times better than you!! Sexual orientation has nothing to do with standards! Some straight persons have worse charactor and standards than gays! **points finger at my ex bf, few of my male-cousins, the guy who raped me, the guy who tried to stick his dick in my mouth forcefully**

I prefer having gays as my friends!



WHY??

Homosexuals have a right too. They need their freedom too. If u so hate homosexuality so much go to middle east!!



i would love to watch em grope but sad thing homosexuals dont do such stuff in public. LOL.

You sound like a stereotypical ditzy dumb bitch anyways. Evidenced by the fact you call yourself a "gurl" not to mention your overuse of "smileys." You'll probably get lucky though, get pregnant young by a retard meat head and enjoy a life of getting fat and watching daytime TV.

You sound like a stereotypical ditzy dumb bitch anyways. Evidenced by the fact you call yourself a "gurl" not to mention your overuse of "smileys." You'll probably get lucky though, get pregnant young by a retard meat head and enjoy a life of getting fat and watching daytime TV.

You don't have to go to a gay bar. There are gay restaurants, gay cruise ships, fuck I think they even have gay yoga classes.

By refusing to go to your own surroundings you are just asking for trouble.

Asking out strangers is just as pathetic as asking them for money.

Are you trying to make some kind of political statement here or something by pushing homosexuality on the innocent public? You are just as bad as the homosexuals who make out and grope in public places forcing mothers to cover their child's eyes.

1% of the population is gay, the odds are against you or have you never even taken a basic college mathematics course?

People shouldn't talk to strangers, strangers shouldn't talk to me. I don't fucking care if they want money, directions, or want to talk to me about Jesus, they need to fuck off.

No that guy was most likely a homosexual. Several of my friends agreed especially after he humped me, he was confronted and asked "did you just dry hump that kid." He acted evasive at first and denied it. The whole denying that he did it even after he clearly did pretty much shows he was a homosexual.

Furthermore, he had those ridiculous ear piercings where they put a fucking hole the size of an Eisenhower dollar in your ear lobe and that whole "alternative" look like one of those "trend-setter" kids. Only a gay person would do that to their ear.

What about the guys who fucking slowly and gently stroke my back or shoulder in public? I bet you think that's dandy too, don't you?

Would you still be so adamantly defensive of your "right" to hit on any guy you see if we were in, let's say the South in the 1950's?

It's the one guy you need to be wary of who will be so offended and pissed off at you violating him

WHY??

Homosexuals have a right too. They need their freedom too. If u so hate homosexuality so much go to middle east!!

Than I guess you need to stay out of public places. A part of being human is talking and interacting, so either get used to it or remove yourself from these situations.

Geez you should have done that long ago!

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