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#353366 - 02/15/10 09:54 PM
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Mlw
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Okay, Some time ago I realized I'm masterbating too much. I didnt stop didn't care to. But, I quickly realized that sex doesn't feel right. Sometimes I would become soft during intercourse. So I looked something up I forgot what though. I met my current girlfriend and i realized masterbating takes away some feeling you have during sex. So i stopped masterbating for about 3 weeks and had sex with my girlfriend. Then bam i ejaculated.
But now. I masterbate bout once a week. We had sex like once every two weeks. I am coming across the problem that when she gets super wet I can't ejaculate around the same time she orgasms so we gotta linger for me but then she gets sore. So i never get to ejaculate.
So now I'm about to stop masterbating again and see if that will help or we need to do something about her wetness.
Would this be the appropriate way to go about this.
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#353367 - 02/16/10 01:10 AM
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Why not try it? If it works, it's good.
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#353370 - 02/16/10 01:45 AM
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ah sex, the imperfect science.
Just try stuff but mostly remember, if either of you don't reach orgasm every single time, that totally ok.
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#353400 - 02/19/10 02:29 AM
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Mlw
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Okay, so all of that goes to waste now.
It sucks that when you get into a serious relationship and the girl says "ok no more sex"...
i love her and this is hard. i don't cheat or nothing either.
Any suggestions on how to stop having urges when shes near?
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#353401 - 02/19/10 08:53 AM
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Okay, so all of that goes to waste now.
It sucks that when you get into a serious relationship and the girl says "ok no more sex"...
So what do you think brought that about?
I'm thinking that maybe she started feeling that you were getting obsessed with sex, or your performance issues? Maybe it became more mechanical and physical and she felt it was no longer (or possibly never) a loving, emotional experience for her? Sounds like she gave it a few tries, didn't enjoy it, and no longer feels it's worth it. (Was she reluctant to start having sex with you in the first place? Could she have felt obligated or pressured to do it with you?)
You need to find out why. Also, how was the sex play in the weeks or months before you two actually started having intercourse? Did she enjoy all of that? If you go back o getting her excited that way, maybe she'll change her mind once you get her all horned up!
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#353428 - 02/22/10 06:35 AM
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Mlw
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its not any of that. It's just she wants to get better with "god" so. the adultery thing.
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