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#354167 - 04/10/10 01:59 PM
Guilt after random hookups?
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Technical
Registered: 07/11/07
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Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
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Has anyone else felt almost a sense of guilt or shame after a random hookup?
Up until this point all of my sexual experiences have been with girls I was in relationships with. However last night me and a girl hooked up and gave and recieved oral sex. It was fun in the moment and I don't really regret it. Yet for some reason I feel ashamed about it. My guess is its social standards that have been built into me from a young age. It sucks though.
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#354177 - 04/11/10 11:48 AM
Re: Guilt after random hookups?
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Roc
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Is it because she is in a relationship with someone and you knew it and still had sex, or was it just fricking hot, nasty, sweaty sex and you feel a little guilty for really letting loose for the first time?
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#354193 - 04/12/10 01:59 AM
Re: Guilt after random hookups?
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Technical
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Probably the second. Except it wasn't that amazing probably due to alcohol being involved.
I was safe though, not that drunk.
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#354266 - 04/22/10 12:30 AM
Re: Guilt after random hookups?
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StephieJ
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don't feel too bad.. these things happen.. it will probably happen again too.
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#354269 - 04/22/10 11:50 AM
Re: Guilt after random hookups?
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I remember my first pick-up at a bar. My feelings after were basically "wow, I can actually pick up girls in a bar". Then I proceeded to do it over and over.
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#355609 - 08/03/10 09:19 PM
Re: Guilt after random hookups?
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Still077
Registered: 08/03/10
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I think you got it spot on. It's those core religious values that get instilled in people these days, even if they aren't brought up religious. Nothing you can really do for it though. Just tell yourself that you aren't doing anything wrong and decide if you can live with that.
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