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#355523 - 07/25/10 08:47 PM decreasing/fluctuating sex drive?
horniboi91
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Hey guys!

I have a concern of mine that has been going on for the past three months now.

Ever since I lost my virginity in March strange things have been happening to me. Like my sex drive fluctuates to the point of extreme horniness or very low horniness to the point of being uninterested in sexual things.

Recently I've almost gotten into a sexual encounter and I'm wondering if it is normal for me to reject it or maybe feeling apprehensive about the sexual encounter?

Anyway, my point is that I'm not as horny as I was before and I was wondering if that is a bad or a good thing?... Very concerned here if I'm not healthy or anything...

I have been sleeping late nights, maybe that is a factor that is affecting my sex drive?

Please do respond!

Sincerely,

K.
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#355525 - 07/25/10 09:37 PM Re: decreasing/fluctuating sex drive? [Re: horniboi91]
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Late nights would certainly have an effect, and so would apprehensiveness. These could well involved.

Sex drive does in any case vary - hormone levels vary in the male in a cycle that is much less regular than in the female, but a cycle nevertheless. It is common to have a week or two of less than average horniness, and at other times be more horny than usual. There may also be slower cycles.

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#355562 - 07/28/10 08:56 AM Re: decreasing/fluctuating sex drive? [Re: horniboi91]
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Don't worry you are completely normal. Everyone has their ups and downs of how horny you are, you just may not have noticed it before your first time. Sometimes you want it loads, others you don't.

About rejecting the sexual encounter, did you reject it because you were worried you might not be horny enough? Or did you just pass it up because you didnt want it?

Passing on sex doesn't make your abnormal. \:\)

Hope I got the gist of your post right
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#355582 - 07/29/10 01:33 PM Re: decreasing/fluctuating sex drive? [Re: payner90]
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I passed the sex up and I wondered if that was normal.. lol

I mean, yeah, I guess I have my downs and ups...lately the downs...*shrugs*
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#355616 - 08/04/10 07:07 PM Re: decreasing/fluctuating sex drive? [Re: horniboi91]
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Need more information, I think. Like what are the circumstances of the sex that you passed up? If it was just like a random hookup or chick who is just throwing herself at you, I could totally see not being interested. But if it's like your girlfriend or whatever and you never want to have sex with her... well then you've got a problem. :-/
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