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#814 - 02/06/04 04:29 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Do you know what the average penis size is when not erect. I am not usually the first one in. I am not fat at all either. Is there anything else I can do to make it look larger?

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#815 - 02/06/04 04:33 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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There is no real average penis size. But it's definitley between 5 and 6 inches. I'm guessing probably 5.5 inches.

It doesn't really matter what your penis size is when flaccid. Some guys become quite large when erect and their penis is small when flaccid.

I can't think of much else that would make it look bigger. Really, I wouldn't be concerned about what other guys think about your penis size. Males suffer from penis envy, not women.

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#816 - 02/06/04 05:17 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Just to add that that average inbetween 5 or 6 inches is for adults. Its nearly impossible to figure out an average from ages still in puberty since u never really know when its gonan stop growing.
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#817 - 02/06/04 08:59 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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You're a very respectable size for an adult, and considerably bigger than average for your age. Don't forget that the guys who swing theirs about in the locker room are generally those who are bigger than average. It's even known for guys to work up a semi to try to look what they think is a respectable size.
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#818 - 02/07/04 01:55 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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i am 15 and my dick is 5 inches long hard and 4 and a half inches girth. is that normal? o and i havent gotten my armpit hairs yet either. is that normal?
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#819 - 02/07/04 09:22 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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You're fine. It sounds like you're a little later than average. You'll probably find everything will grow a bit in the coming year.
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#820 - 02/08/04 12:03 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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Im 13 my penis is 6.5 icnhes long with a hard on and my girth(round) is 4in. Im Black. Is it the right size for a male my age?
Is it true that black dudes have bigger penises than whit dudes?


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#821 - 02/08/04 01:00 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Every person is different. But yes, you have a big penis especially for your age.

A lot of times the stereotypes aren't true. I have an asian friend with a 10" penis.

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#822 - 02/08/04 04:59 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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yeah i agree girls say they want a big dick then when they do they bitch it hurts its a bunch of crap sometimes i wonder if they know what they want
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#823 - 02/08/04 02:59 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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i am 15 and i am 5 inches long and 5 inches girth.
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#824 - 02/08/04 03:11 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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A couple posts ago you said it was 4.5 inches girth. Let me guess...it grew!
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#825 - 02/08/04 05:43 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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nope i just measured it rong if thats ok with u
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#826 - 02/09/04 05:39 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I've been reading this, it seems you guys have got the "nice" answer not the "hard but correct" answer thing going. Why don't you tell it how it is? you tell me for instance that i'm o.k then further down the line you tell a guy who's bigger than me that the average vagina is the same as his size. This is afraid to ask .com, not we'll build your confidence up so you can go and get humiliated. com
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#827 - 02/09/04 06:02 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I take your point, Steve. But penis size is much more a psychological self-esteem issue than anything else. You don't need much at all to produce offspring, and even for giving pleasure to a woman, while a bigger one may be helpful, a finger can do a lot down there, and most penises are bigger than that. Vaginas are stretchy, and even a tampon fits in tightly. With a small penis you may have to pay more attention to technique, but by doing so you may well out-perform a guy who relies on his size alone to do the job.

Even in terms of psychology, penis size matters more to most men than it does to most women. Most women put personality well ahead of anything else.

I hope that puts it more in context. Yes, you are smaller than average - half of us must be. But you're not pathologically small, and you don't even know if you have finished growing.

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#828 - 02/09/04 11:43 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I am still growing, i re-measured today and i'm now 4.7 inches. I measured three times just incase i was wrong (i allways do), but still, i heard that size doesn't matter...when you're past a certain point in size.

So you think i'm past that point? i don't know where the "point" is so i'm wondering if any of you lot know. And, if i were to have a one night stand, would i get laughed at? i know i've asked all this BS before, but i want a straight answer. Thanks..

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#829 - 02/10/04 02:06 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I don't think there is any definite "point".

Girls generally know better than to make any comment about a guy's size, unless it's clearly big. They know how sensitive guys are about it (even big guys are often afraid they're small).

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#830 - 02/10/04 05:58 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I dunno, i overheard a group of girls the other day taking the piss out of a guy with a small one, saying that you need at least 6 inches.
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#831 - 02/10/04 05:57 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Girls together tend to be much bitchier than by themselves. (Guys together tend to be more aggressive than by themselves too.)
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#832 - 02/10/04 10:32 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Howdy.

This isn't really a high-brow initial post, and I'm sorry if I'm defiling the newbie-rules by posting here first.

I'm 21, and my penis is 8.75 inches long and approximately 6 inches in girth. I'm kind of skinny, and pretty pale however, so it all balances out in the end.

By the way, I'm curious. Are we supposed to attempt to straighten our penis as we measure it? (as in a slight bend?). Because if so, I would be roughly 9 inches.

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#833 - 02/10/04 10:50 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I've just finished watching a programme on t.v an hour ago. It was called "man's best freind", guess what it was about? lol. Anyway, halfway through a doctor came on and showed you how to measure the penis properly, i couldn't beleive it. All this time i have been measuring wrong, so i measured myself in the proper way. I'm actually 5.3 inches long and 4.5 girth, thats made my day that!

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#834 - 02/11/04 02:01 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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There are no newbie rules, kymonks, so welcome.

It's usual to measure along the bend, equivalent to straightening it out, for what it's worth.

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#835 - 02/11/04 02:05 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I presume this is the bone-pressed versus non-bone-pressed issue, steve? It's a somewhat contentious one.

UK television sounds interesting. I wonder what all the little old ladies thought, who watched thinking it was a programme about dogs?

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#836 - 02/11/04 03:01 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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hehe it was probably on late at night... when I have insomnia I try watching TV and I can tell you the stuff the put on the TV at 3AM puts me right to sleep! Stuff like Baseball!

Sorry, american chaps

I've posted before (yeh and I don't need people going 'you're not small!') but my length is past 7 inches when I'm really hard but my girth is only average at 5 inches or so, so it looks a bit skinny. As I'm 17 do you think it has a chance to 'fill out' some more?

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#837 - 02/11/04 08:03 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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In reply to:

UK television sounds interesting. I wonder what all the little old ladies thought, who watched thinking it was a programme about dogs?




hahahah LMAO LMAO LMAO

don't you just know that there was someone out there that put in a tape to record it thinking it was about "mans best friend" LMAO

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#838 - 02/11/04 02:31 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Ha, this was on at about 12:00 ish.I have insomnia, yeah it's all U.S football and baseball, but you sometimes get the odd boxing show. I used to measure myself by just putting a tape measure to the side of my dick. This progamme said you have to lie on your back and grab the end to straighten it (mine is pretty straight anyway though) then get a ruler and push it against your dick..so i did..exactly what the doctor did...and i'm 5.3.
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#839 - 02/16/04 06:13 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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yer im like 6'6-6'7...5' girth..

im 15 and turning 16 in like 3 months

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#840 - 02/24/04 05:08 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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6.5in long, 5.25in girth
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#841 - 02/25/04 12:44 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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my dick is 6.25-6.50 in lenght and 5.5 in girth, is this normal. I was also wondering if there is a way i can make it bigger? Also is the size of my dick right now big enough to please a girl?
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#842 - 02/25/04 01:12 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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you have more than perfect size.
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#843 - 02/25/04 01:24 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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More than perfect? Either something is perfect or it's less than perfect.
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#844 - 02/25/04 01:41 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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lol. well, if I said it was perfect then there may have been more questions.
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#845 - 02/25/04 04:18 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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8-9 inches depending on horniness. WTH is girth? tell me how to measure it.
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#846 - 02/25/04 04:19 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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oh yea, i'm 15.
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#847 - 02/25/04 04:19 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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The area AROUND your penis, circumfrence. I have no clue how to measure it.
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#848 - 02/25/04 04:26 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I know, I'm not a guy, but here is what matters. Finding a "good fit." Our genitals are a lot like puzzle peices so no matter what size you are, part of the populus is shaped to fit you well. Go find 'em
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#849 - 02/25/04 05:34 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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sombody tell me how to measure it..haha i wanna know, should i just use one of those sewing rulers..(the ones that are just a limp noodle) ?
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#850 - 02/25/04 05:42 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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that'll work. measure from the base of the shaft to the end of the penis and you have your length.

While erect, wrap the ruler, or whatever you use, around your penis. Where the ruler comes back around and touches where to ruler starts is where you need to look at to find out your girth. Average girth is between 4.5" to 5.5"

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#851 - 02/25/04 06:45 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Wrapping the ruler around works well if you're using a sewing measuring tape. Otherwise, you can use a strip of paper, mark on it where it gets back to itself, then unroll the strip and measure using any ruler.

Girth is the measure you need for selecting the right condom size, since tightness of fit is the important variable.

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#852 - 02/26/04 01:29 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I used dentil floss when I did it. Now that I think of it, I should have used paper...
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#853 - 02/26/04 12:25 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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ALRITE! finally, got that measured, it's 6 1/4 inches GIRTH.
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#854 - 02/26/04 02:34 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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No need to make it bigger, its already on the large end of the supposed average for an adult male penis. Besides, at your age you may have some more growth to do in that department. As to pleasure for her...I'm an inch smaller than you and I've never had complaints from my wife, so size there really doesn't matter much...its what you do with it!
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#855 - 02/26/04 05:40 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Motion of the ocean, kinda the size of the boat but not really.
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#856 - 02/26/04 06:25 PM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care)
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In reply to:

As to pleasure for her...I'm an inch smaller than you and I've never had complaints from my wife




Like a woman would just come out and tell you your penis is too small. Just because you've never had any complaints doesn't mean your wife wouldn't like it better if you were bigger.

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#857 - 02/27/04 12:03 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Do you suffer from "penis envy" syndrome?
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#858 - 02/27/04 12:33 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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I suffer from "reality" syndrome
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#859 - 02/27/04 12:43 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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lol. well, the reality of things are most males suffer from what has been medically termed by sex experts "penis envy syndrome".
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#860 - 02/27/04 12:44 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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What does the post I made to lance have to do with me being envious of his penis?
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#861 - 02/27/04 01:07 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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Many surveys have asked women what they look for in a man. Overwhelmingly, women say they want kindness, caring, warmth, tenderness, attentiveness, commitment, shared values, a good listener, a sense of humor, a competent adult who makes a decent living and has no serious vices. I've never seen a survey where any significant proportion of women have said they want a man with a huge penis. In fact, a review of women's letters to the Kinsey Institute for Sex, Gender, and Reproduction at Indiana University showed that those who inquire about penis size are more likely to complain that their lover is too large (and might hurt them) than too small. When women have raised the issue, they usually ask how they can persuade the men in their lives to stop obsessing about penis size.

It's clear that the vast majority of women don't care about penis size. I believe that. Still, I'm a guy, and when I look in the mirror, I think: An extra inch couldn't hurt. Which brings me to the subject of penis envy. Sigmund Freud, father of psychoanalysis, coined the term to describe his idea that women wish they had penises, and deeply envy men for having them. Decades ago, feminist psychology thoroughly discredited this notion. Little boys see that women have breasts much more often than little girls see that men have penises, yet Freud said nothing about "breast envy." On the other hand, I'm convinced that penis envy is a real affliction. Women don't suffer it. Men do. Men, envy other men whose penises are larger than theirs. Therefore creating the basis of the mentality where penis size overwhelmingly matters, which is what you suffer from, most guys suffer from.

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#862 - 02/27/04 01:23 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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In reply to:

Many surveys have asked women what they look for in a man. Overwhelmingly, women say they want kindness, caring, warmth, tenderness, attentiveness, commitment, shared values, a good listener, a sense of humor, a competent adult who makes a decent living and has no serious vices.




Of course they want that, for a relationship. No sane woman would choose a life partner based on his penis size, but that doesn't mean that a larger one isn't more favorable for sex.

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In fact, a review of women's letters to the Kinsey Institute for Sex, Gender, and Reproduction at Indiana University showed that those who inquire about penis size are more likely to complain that their lover is too large (and might hurt them) than too small.




A woman would only write a letter to the Kinsey Institute if she had a sexual problem, and a penis large enough to cause pain could be classified as a "problem", but a penis small enough to please a woman adequately is more like "less than satisfactory".

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When women have raised the issue, they usually ask how they can persuade the men in their lives to stop obsessing about penis size.




Of course they don't want their men obsessing about their penis size, but again this doesn't mean that a bigger one isn't better.

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It's clear that the vast majority of women don't care about penis size.




No, it isn't

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#863 - 02/27/04 02:02 AM Re: How big is your dick? (only for those who care
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lol. It's good to know some of your views.
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