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#359946 - 06/23/12 10:04 AM
cant have sex with a condom...
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qwazz
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Title says it all, me and my girlfriend (we are both 17) cant have sex with condoms. I can maintain an erection fine during foreplay and oral but once the condom is on and i enter her, i dont feel anything and lose my erection. Im guessing the issue is psychological, doe anyone else have any similar issues?
We are hoping to get her on the pill soon (i know the talk of std's and everythig)
Edited by qwazz (06/23/12 10:06 AM)
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#359947 - 06/23/12 12:44 PM
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try urethane(sp) condoms they're thinner
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#359949 - 06/23/12 02:17 PM
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Thanks, is it common for things like this?
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#359951 - 06/23/12 05:45 PM
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I don't know
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#359953 - 06/23/12 06:06 PM
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qwazz
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Your answers are so informative.
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#359954 - 06/23/12 06:09 PM
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tnks just know a little
where r u
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#359957 - 06/24/12 12:06 AM
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Welcome to A2A, qwazz.
There are ultra-thin condoms that you can try, which give more feeling. There can also be a problem if the condom is too loose or too tight.
But it could be simply psychological. Perhaps it might help to try masturbating with a condom, to get more used to it?
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#359964 - 06/25/12 06:41 AM
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qwazz
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Hi ineligible, thanks.
I will have to grab some "ultra-thins", see if they make a difference. On occasion I have masturbated with a condom but it does take longer to reach climax. I'm wondering if the condom is too lose.
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#360043 - 08/04/12 06:08 AM
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She needs to get on the pill ASAP, especially if you're having issues with condoms and the ones you do use may be too big. If the condom doesn't fit right (it could break or come off) and she's not even on the pill you guys can end up as parents.
With her on the pill least one of you will have protection, but it's best to use both condoms and the birth control. Both need to be used properly every time they taken/used.
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