Let’s face it. Talking to girls is tough.
Growing up, I went to an all-boys catholic high school. It wasn’t until college that I was regularly around girls.
I remember going to the bars with friends. Most of the time, we’d just talk awkwardly amongst ourselves.
When we did end up talking to a group of girls, it somehow always ended up being a boring conversation about internships or careers.
Regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or looking for one, knowing how to talk to girls is a skill that every guy should have.
Looking at the most popular guides on talking to girls, I came across Jason Capital’s “Make Women Want You” product.
Jason was kind enough to provide me with a complimentary copy of the program for our review.
What’s in the Box?
Make Women Want You – a 115 page e-book.
The e-book discusses Jason’s philosophy on picking up women.
The first part of the book focuses on developing inner confidence. Like every Sylvester Stallone movie teaches us, nothing is going to happen unless you will it to happen.
The main point I took away from the first section is: put yourself first.
Don’t put women on a pedestal and realize that you are your unique self with a lot to offer the world.
The second part of the book highlights the steps to the “pick up.”
Here, the book focuses on techniques to build attraction, how to make entertaining small talk, and “closing the deal.”
Just to give a sample of building attraction:
When you walk into a bar filled with gorgeous women, what do you do?
If your first instinct is to talk to the first woman you see, then my young Jedi, you’ve got a chance of passing on your genetics.
The theory behind approaching the first woman you see is that all the other women within a 10 foot diameter (remember geometry?) will recognize that you’re someone who has value because another woman has taken interest in you.
It doesn’t matter if you hit it off with the first woman or not, just having a conversation will elevate your “perceived value” with all the women who are watching.
This gives you a better chance of striking up conversation with any women around you – at least for the next 10 minutes.
In addition to the e-book, you get a bunch of “bonuses” ranging from blog length articles, a transcribed interview, a PowerPoint presentation, to a series of promotional material for other dating programs.
The titles are pretty self explanatory:
1. “Body Language Secrets that Get the Girl EVERY TIME”
5 body language techniques to position yourself to seem more dominant.
2. “How to Always Know What to Say”
11 pager on small talk. Here, Jason outlines conversation dynamics and gives lots of examples on successful small talk. General gist: be interesting.
3. “Done For You Attraction”
8 pages of right out of box quotes you can try on the next girl you talk to.
4. “Stuck on You”
11 tips to maintaining a relationship
5. A transcribed interview:
“Orgasm Club with Jason Capital and Jason Julius”
6. A short pdf on techniques:
“The Charm Bible Jason Capital”
7. A video:
“The Subliminal Switch Video Training Series” – a 25 minute
8. A member’s area:
“Masters of Dating Inner Circle” – 1 month trial membership to more advanced mentoring.
9. A “member’s only” which are basically promotional materials for 5 other products you can buy.
Who this book is for:
If you’re looking for an easy to read beginner’s guide to talking to women with some basic instructions to get started, then this is it.
What this book doesn’t do:
If you’re looking for something that helps you with appearances or long-term relationships, then I suggest you keep looking.
Overall, I recommend Make Women Want You as a good guide to get you started in the scary world of dating.
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